You should be clear about your position. You can do less, but you must not do housework. I really admire him for watching you work. You didn't know he used to be like this? Now you should train him to do housework, at least help him when the oil bottle falls.
I don't do housework at home. My mother told me not to wait on you at home. You were very capable when you got married ~ Hehe, in order to avoid feeling sorry for my mother, I told my boyfriend in advance to do housework or draw lots after marriage. It seems that drawing lots is a bit boring, but it's quite fun. If you are lucky, you can try, I won't ~)
If you love him, you can do more for him, but don't do more unnecessary things. There is also a sentence from my mother, the more spoiled the turtle, the more charming it is. Don't spoil him too much You are always working, and he is used to being idle. It is you who will be affected in the future. Men are no longer children. May you live happily all your lives!