People are afraid of failure, not only because failure will make them poor, but also because failure will make them hold their heads in front of others. Can these two concerns be alleviated?
1. Due to business failure, some people may owe a huge sum of money in a very short time. If he earns money by working, it may take two or three years or even longer to pay it off. So it may take years to save a failure. On the other hand, as long as we are willing to spend time, then we can save the failure.
Failure is nothing to be afraid of, because we can save it in time. So as long as you are young and have plenty of time, you don't have to be afraid of failure.
Second, when you fail, will you feel humiliated in front of your parents? Do you feel ashamed in front of your brothers and sisters? Will you feel ashamed in front of your children? Usually not. At this time, you may feel humiliated in front of distant relatives, classmates and friends, especially in front of enemies and people who want to fail. Your parents, brothers, sisters and children can often bring you many things, but what can your distant relatives, classmates and friends bring you? On the whole, it can't bring you much benefit. Your enemies, who want you to fail, can't bring you anything. When you fail, the person you are most worried about who may look down on yourself is actually the person who is least important to you. Is that person who is not important to you worth raising your head and being unhappy? You can completely ignore their existence, completely despise them and despise their evaluation.
When you fail, instead of paying attention to yourself and your face, it is better to despise others and those who are not important first.
We can't deny intelligence and diligence, but we can't deny opportunity and luck.
It is normal that people who are not as smart and diligent as you are richer and happier than you, because their luck is better than yours.
Failure makes me grow. Who hasn't experienced failure? If Edison had not experienced failure, he could not have invented the electric light; If Einstein had not experienced failure, how could he put forward the theory of relativity? Bedo has never experienced failure, how to invent the telephone ... All scientific experiments have to repeat countless failures, and only by learning from them can we succeed.
Failure makes us grow, inspires us to forge ahead, inspires us to fight, enriches our energy and makes us brave.
A success needs the accumulation of countless failures, and the sunshine always comes after the storm. How can I see the rainbow without failure? Nothing can be done overnight. In failure, our plans will be more perfect and our thoughts will be more mature-we will grow in failure.
When the exam failed, the fool was sad and angry, and even crumpled up the test paper and threw it into the trash can; Smart people will carefully analyze every wrong question, find out the reason of the mistake, then collect test papers and review them from time to time to avoid making the same mistake again. Only when you make mistakes will you find your own shortcomings. Not all mistakes are bad. Failure makes our minds more mature and urges us to keep moving forward and never stop.
We should be grateful for failure, because it makes us grow.
Failure makes me grow. 3. Open the valve of memory. What happened in the past flashed by like a movie. However, there is one thing I will never forget, because it has benefited me a lot.
I remember one Saturday morning, I came to the English school with a nervous heart, because I didn't review the previous content seriously recently. At the beginning of class, the teacher told us to calm down and prepare to write a dictation word, because we didn't review it carefully a few days ago, and we were very nervous. I don't know how many words I can write. My heart is like a rabbit and my ears are like a machine.
I tried to calm myself down in my heart and take a few deep breaths. The teacher began to report dictation. I carefully wrote down what I heard, while thinking about whether I wrote it correctly. The dictation of this lesson is done under such a tense situation. After school, the teaching assistant corrected the dictation book in the morning and sent it out. I was afraid to open the notebook when I got it. I know I must have made many mistakes this time. As I expected, I opened the dictation book carefully. The teacher severely criticized me and gave me some ideological education. I will definitely review at home in the future. Don't be proud of my good dictation. I will persevere and review what I have learned. At that time, I bowed my head in shame and knew that I had made so many mistakes without careful review. I blushed and told the teacher that I knew I was wrong.
When I got home, I was afraid to take my dictation book to my mother for signature. I'm afraid my mother will hit me. After checking my homework, my mother found that I didn't see the dictation book and asked me. I hung my head and didn't dare to make any noise. I am so nervous that I don't know what to say. My face turned red. My mother looked at me and probably guessed the reason, so she asked me if I made many mistakes in dictation. I blushed and nodded, not daring to make any noise. I'm ready to be beaten. You have studied for so long, you should take it seriously. Never fish for three days and dry the net for two days! "Mom's words are not heavy but heavy, and every word in them touches my heart! For an instant, I didn't know whether I was ashamed or sad, and tears welled up in my eyes. I suddenly realized that failure is the mother of success. If you learn anything, you can't give up halfway. You must persevere in order to gain something.
Lying in bed at night, I can't sleep for a long time, thinking: From now on, I must be a good boy who is diligent and studious, so that my mother can rest assured and be proud. I also want to thank this failure, because failure has made me grow up.
Failure makes me grow. Excellent composition 4 "Hahahaha" Where did a burst of laughter come from? Don't ask, it's from our class. Mr. Lin, the head teacher of our class, is very interesting and has a class story competition for us! Haha, storytelling is my award, the title of champion, so you are ready to fly to my head!
Suddenly, after several days of fierce competition, five students stood on the platform. They are me, Long Keyu, Huang Liqi, Mo Wenjing and Huixin Liu. The teacher and five students acted as referees. This is the last and most crucial game. All success or failure depends on this game, so we are all preparing very carefully.
"Dear teachers and classmates, the final of the class story contest has begun! Please welcome our five contestants to the stage! " In applause, the five of us went to the podium and decided the order by drawing lots. Huixin Liu first, Huang Liqi second, Mo Wenjing third, I fourth, Long Keyu fifth.
Huixin Liu's story begins. She is an expert in dancing and singing, so her story is mixed with a song and a dance action from time to time. To put it simply, it is very difficult for her to perform dancing, singing and telling stories, but she blends in seamlessly and invisibly improves her scores. Finally, the scores of the teacher and five students were divided by 6, and 95.9 points were obtained.
She has achieved good results just after playing, so Mo Wenjing, who is going to play next, is under great pressure, which makes her very confident. She was so absorbed in telling stories that she forgot to do the prepared actions. The final score is 89.7 points.
Huang Liqi, the preliminary champion, came on stage. Contrary to Mo Wenjing, she is very confident, and everything is in place when telling stories, and she can't find any shortcomings. Final score: 98.9 points.
It's my turn I confidently stepped onto the stage and talked about the little mermaid in a sweet voice. Listen, the students and teachers are completely intoxicated. They seem to see the spoony little mermaid throw a sharp knife into the sea and turn it into foam. At the end of the story, applause rolled in, and many approving eyes came, including jealous eyes. My final score is 99.8.
Long Keyu came on stage. As soon as she came on stage, she made a face and made the whole class laugh. She plays eight roles by herself. In an action, two children make faces at each other at the same time, and she makes an action with half of her face. Don't mention how funny it is The whole class burst into laughter, and the teacher was in tears, covering her stomach and lying on the table. "bang!" "bang!" "bang!" After three loud noises, three handsome guys, known as the Three Icebergs, covered their bellies and laughed on the ground. I wonder where the poor chair was kicked. A few seconds later, the whole class burst into a crazier laugh and laughed until they never gave up. Finally stopped, the teacher showed the final score: 99.9 points.
I was surprised at first. How could I lose? Later, I learned that because of pride, I only practiced twice and then stopped practicing, while Long Keyu practiced five times every day after school. How can I not lose?
I remember my mother showed me a composition entitled "Growing up in a Rainy Night". Yes, others grew up in rainy nights, and I grew up in failure.