I attended a friend's wedding the other day. Looking at this happy moment, Bian Xiao was a little touched. Cross-border marriage seems to have lost its popularity, and it seems to have become the trend of modern society and become accustomed to it. However, behind such a marriage, the two must first accept foreign cultural customs, which is actually very difficult for China people who have been influenced by China culture since childhood. No, some netizens kept spitting after spending their wedding night with their Japanese girlfriends. What's going on here? Bian Xiao takes you to reveal the story behind Tucao.
Although Japan is a neighbor of China, and the two countries have close contacts since ancient times, it is reasonable to say that the cultural differences between the two countries should not be too great, but the Japanese marriage customs are unacceptable to many China people who have come into contact with them. Japanese girls are particularly particular about their wedding night, and many customs have to be completed one by one before they can enter the marriage hall. First of all, the newly-married girl must kick off her eyebrows before getting married. After hearing about this custom, many people were shocked, because nowadays girls even go to beauty salons to get tattoos on their eyebrows, not to mention shaving so cruelly.
In fact, the Japanese believe that shaving off eyebrows is a full expression of a girl's determination to follow her husband forever, and at the same time, a girl who is about to get married has to blacken her teeth when making up. Therefore, there are obvious differences in aesthetics between China and Japan. Japanese girls have dark teeth, and at first glance they really can't see their teeth are neat, which is also the purpose of this custom. Do you think this kind of bride is a little scary? If you think that exotic customs stop here, you are wrong.
It is said that the girl who is about to get married in Japan will take a bath with her biological father. Does this custom make many people unable to sit still when it comes out? There are so many embarrassing customs in marriage. Luckily, I was born in China. Otherwise, this custom really makes people afraid to get married, but it is understandable. This custom is a bit embarrassing for China's culture, which has always attached great importance to chastity. In Japan, this custom is regarded as an act of filial piety. Only in this way can children show respect for their fathers, and they are used to it in Japan. Do you have a new understanding of Japanese customs? Would you accept it if it were you?