First, fear of childbirth
The more educated women are, the more they understand and think about the domestic situation, and the more they experience and compare the differences in education, medical care, society and public security at home and abroad, the more they should be afraid of having children.
Secondly, our children are exposed to considerable risks from birth.
1. Money can reduce such opportunities, such as importing vaccines from abroad and attending better schools, but it cannot be completely eradicated. For example, some vaccines have no choice to import, even if children meet abnormal teachers in good schools …
2. It is not unreasonable for China people to say that "ignorance is fearless". My cousin already has a child, and the vaccine incident is so fierce. I saw their circle of friends yesterday, but I still ate and drank, and everything was fine. Yes, the devil didn't win himself in the lottery, so the bad world has nothing to do with me for the time being.
Third, worry about everything.
1, people who are too lazy to find a partner, let alone give birth, feel very painful to think about it.
2, pregnant in October, loose skin, stretch marks on the stomach, caesarean section and 18 scar, postpartum depression, hair loss, schizophrenia.
3, but also worry about children going to kindergarten; Will you encounter "three colors"; Whether the primary school will punish corporal punishment; Learn to fall in love and so on.
I also discussed it with my mother before. Why did you give birth to me? I always took care of me when I was a child. When I grew up, I worked in the field, and nothing happened. I didn't care for my mother to answer me for three seconds. Maybe she was in pain and happy.
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