How should parents guide their children to do housework?
Family education: When you find that your child is unwilling to do housework, how should you guide him correctly? I think most people don't want to do housework, not only children, but also most parents, I believe. Otherwise, how can so many young couples quarrel about who does housework? In the final analysis, it is because housework is boring, and simple and repeated labor does not produce much sense of value! Simply put, doing housework is boring! See the key to the problem, then talk about how my parents who don't like housework take their babies to do housework! There is a secret, that is, doing housework here becomes interesting! The so-called fun, there are several aspects, on the one hand, let children feel that doing housework is fun, on the other hand, let children get a sense of value and value from doing housework! Make housework interesting. During the Xi 'an epidemic, all the dishes were bought by group. Once, our family bought ten Jin of fresh broad beans. If I peel these ten Jin of broad beans by myself, it will take a long time! So I started a competition to peel broad beans. At first, I could only peel three beans a minute, so I practiced with these ten Jin of broad beans. When ten catties of broad beans are peeled, I can peel eight in a minute. In this process, she also found a new way to improve the peeling speed of broad beans: break the cocoon from the middle and squeeze the broad beans out! Unexpectedly, with the blessing of the baby, all the broad beans in ten hills were stripped in a short time, and she still felt a little unfinished! Let housework become a sense of gain. Besides my routine peeling of broad beans, my baby likes to cook with me. When steaming steamed bread, he likes to help me weigh flour, put yeast and make cakes. When preparing, he will help me copy down the recipes I found online (by drawing pictures) and help me weigh the sugar. Make housework valuable. Last week, I was making spaghetti sauce again. My baby offered to help me wash tomatoes, one by one, and then one by one, and all the stalks fell off. And help me peel garlic one by one. I kept saying to him, "thank you, baby, for being mom's little helper!" " ""With your help, I can do it faster! "She especially likes the title of' Little Helper Q'. He feels that as a small helper, he is also contributing to the whole family, not a person who only enjoys it. Let housework become a sense of happiness. Although Eva and I don't like housework, we especially enjoy a moment, that is, the process of washing clothes and drying clothes together. Turn on the washing machine and take out the clothes. Sometimes very small. She handed me the clothes in the basin one by one, and I hung them on the clothesline one by one. Sometimes, I pass her clothes, and she hangs them clumsily on the hanger and hands them to me to hang on a higher clothesline. A dry dress was taken off the hanger and piled on the bed. He stood in front of me, one by one, from big to small. He will also show me with great pride how neat his folded clothes are, and his socks can be stacked together in pairs without falling apart.