This is the dying teacher Zhao's last words to his adopted son Gong Hanlin.
This is such a simple suggestion that Gong Hanlin stuck to it for the rest of his life.
10 After Zhao left, Gong Hanlin officially announced that he would quit the Spring Festival Gala and stop performing skits.
However, when he returns to life, he often leads a very sad life.
What worries me is not the loss of my career, but the marriage of my son and the birth of my grandson.
Gong Hanlin was born in 1957, a native of Shenyang, and a national first-class actor.
Born in a traditional opera family, both parents are Henan Bangzi actors.
You do the math, Gong Hanlin should be called "Star II".
But at that time, "players" didn't seem to be very respected.
Therefore, parents will never take the initiative to expose Gong Hanlin to traditional Chinese opera.
My parents are well-known in the local area and often perform everywhere.
Gong Hanlin Jr. sometimes runs around with his parents.
And most of the time, Gong Hanlin stays at home alone.
His parents always left him a lot of money before he left, so as not to make Gong Hanlin hungry because he had no money.
But Gong Hanlin grew up like a person who didn't have enough to eat all the year round, as thin as a hemp pole.
This makes Gong Hanlin often bullied by older children.
At school, Gong Hanlin was surrounded by these people every time after school.
Under a threat, Gong Hanlin's money was completely ransacked.
Gong Hanlin people are few and weak, and their limbs are thin, so they can't resist.
Being wanted is much more, which has become Gong Hanlin's biggest fear after school.
Every day after school, he needs to think ahead about which road will be safer today.
Later, even when he was not at school, Gong Hanlin didn't want to go out to play.
With nothing to do at home, Gong Hanlin began to ponder over the drama sung by his parents.
Slowly, I actually learned a lot.
The only pity is that Gong Hanlin's breath is too weak for singing opera.
This relieved his parents who didn't want him to be exposed to opera.
However, no one expected that Gong Hanlin was so persistent in the study of traditional Chinese opera.
In college, Gong Hanlin became a student of Shenyang University, majoring in philosophy, which has nothing to do with China traditional opera.
Just as Gong Hanlin's parents breathed a sigh of relief again,
Gong Hanlin joined the Quyi Club. Fortunately, there are more people studying cross talk in this Quyi Club.
Gong Hanlin can only learn crosstalk from others.
Four years of college life passed in a blink of an eye. After graduation, Gong Hanlin became a teacher in a school.
He is unwilling to give up his favorite folk art,
He quit his job as a teacher without telling his parents.
Turned and jumped into Shenyang Quyi Troupe, regardless of parents' dissatisfaction, plunged into the ocean of Quyi.
In Quyi Troupe, Gong Hanlin is like a beach of insignificant sand.
No one paid attention to it and didn't give him the key work.
But it was in it that Gong Hanlin worked tirelessly, selling tickets, performing field work, opening the curtain, serving tea and handing books.
You can see him wherever you need him.
Gong Hanlin unexpectedly, his behavior has long been noticed by another person.
This man is Gong Hanlin's wife Zhu Jin.
Zhu Jin and Gong Hanlin joined the Quyi Group at the same time.
At first sight, I was attracted by Gong Hanlin, who was full of energy and enthusiasm.
Zhu Jin is not the kind of person who hesitates. If you like it, let the other person know.
When Gong Hanlin wondered whether this girl had a good impression on herself,
Kim has already made his intention known, and the two simply hold each other's hands.
1983, Gong Hanlin and Zhu Jin got married.
At that time, Gong Hanlin had nothing, and his pockets were cleaner than his face.
Kim doesn't care. In her mind, love is fine.
Gong Hanlin's parents also brought back a daughter-in-law because of their son.
Dissatisfaction with his private contact with Quyi subsided.
In the same year, Jin gave birth to the crystallization of their love and was named Gong Tiankuo.
After that, Gong Hanlin developed very smoothly without the hindrance of parents.
In A.D. 1988, Gong Hanlin became a student in Tang Jiezhong and began to study cross talk professionally.
Mr. Yang Zhizhong felt that Gong Hanlin should not be confined to this small place in his hometown.
I often tell Gong Hanlin to consider going out for a walk more often.
In the same year, Gong Hanlin embarked on the road of Beijing's development.
In Beijing, Gong Hanlin not only came into contact with crosstalk, but also developed well in the direction of sketch film and television drama.
Mr. Tang Jiezhong supported Gong Hanlin behind his back, and it was smooth sailing.
1990, Gong Hanlin officially appeared in front of the national audience and starred in the sketch "Playing Mahjong" in the Spring Festival Evening.
Then for four or five years in a row, Gong Hanlin was on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, giving the audience some jokes.
Unfortunately, in recent years, Gong Hanlin has not become a direct celebrity, but has accumulated a small amount of fame.
What really made Gong Hanlin popular was the Spring Festival Evening of 1995.
This year's Spring Festival Gala was performed by Zhao "so packaged".
It says, "It's warm in spring in bloom, June 6th, and the spring care show hits six or nine heads ..."
Even if you only watch it once, you can keep it in mind.
In fact, before this sketch appeared on the stage, the sketch they rehearsed was "Mom's Heart".
This sketch was rejected by the director during the rehearsal.
I even want to replace Gong Hanlin. Teacher Zhao Li Rong immediately said, "I wouldn't play if I changed him."
Later, Mr. Zhao and the director group promised to make better works.
So there is a classic sketch like "So Packaged".
1996 Gong Hanlin and Zhao's most classic essay "Adventures of Working" was presented brilliantly.
One sentence: "Gong Yu wine, 18 1 cup, how about this wine?" Let me help you blow ... "
Even today, my memory is particularly deep.
This time, not only Miss Zhao, but also Gong Hanlin has spread all over the country.
In the following years, Zhao and Gong Hanlin have been partners.
Gong Hanlin was also regarded as a "son" by Zhao.
In front of the audience, the two are also the "mother and child cp" that everyone likes.
However, it seems that God just can't see the beauty of others.
199 During the rehearsal of the Spring Festival Evening, Teacher Zhao coughed up blood and was rushed to the hospital.
According to the examination, Mr. Zhao is in the advanced stage of lung cancer and there is no possibility of cure.
Everyone couldn't believe it, but Miss Zhao Lirong smiled bitterly.
Comfort them: "Nothing, they will all leave in the end, sooner or later."
At this year's Spring Festival Gala, Mr. Zhao gave his last performance in his life, and the veterans came out.
In the best summer of the Millennium, Miss Zhao closed her eyes forever.
Before he left, she called her adopted son Gong Hanlin to her side:
"Son, you have to remember that in our industry, what you want is to pay attention, and what you don't want is to make do."
At Miss Zhao's memorial service, Gong Hanlin was heartbroken and almost fainted from crying.
But he deeply remembers the words of "mother" Zhao.
In the following ten years, Gong Hanlin tried his best to present the best works and performances to the audience.
On 20 10, Gong Hanlin also finished his last sketch "Beautiful Embarrassment" in the Spring Festival Evening.
From then on, I almost completely bid farewell to the Spring Festival Gala and essays.
After putting down the sketch, Gong Hanlin gradually reduced a lot of work, only occasionally shuttling in film and television dramas.
Put more energy into family and life,
Gong Hanlin's wife has been following in his footsteps,
On the stage of the previous Spring Festival Evening, there were also golden beads.
Gong Hanlin's son Gong Tiankuo seems to have inherited his parents' genes.
At the age of 4, he had already performed sketches on the stage.
In high school, Gong Tiankuo was sent abroad to study by Gong Hanlin and his wife.
When I was in college, I was also a school director who stayed directly in the United States.
After graduating from college in 2009, Gong Tiankuo returned to China to develop his career.
According to his professional skills, he chose a job as a behind-the-scenes director.
After work, I often participate in some film and television dramas.
In a few years, he appeared in many TV dramas such as Brothers of Iron Blood.
Among these second generations, it is not a very prominent one, but it is not bad.
At the end of 20 12, Gong Tiankuo met his own happiness, and Huang Yihui,
The two met in The Choice Before Dawn, and after a long period of contact, they became attached to the drama.
Huang Yihui was born in 199 1, Shandong province. He is about 1.7 meters tall, six years younger than Gong Tiankuo.
Although he has a face that belongs only to Shandong people, he is very lady.
Moreover, the relationship between the two people was formally determined after the play.
Gong Hanlin is also one of the stars in this play.
He was overjoyed when he learned that his son had turned the actress home.
At this time, Gong Tiankuo was 27 years old, and Gong Hanlin had long been worried about his son's marriage.
The moment my son found his girlfriend, Gong Hanlin's first thought was to get married quickly.
After returning to Beijing, Gong Hanlin couldn't wait for his son to invite people home for dinner.
Maybe Gong Hanlin and his wife Zhu Jin are really eager to get married at the dinner table.
Gong Hanlin said: "Now I don't have much ambition. I hope you get married as soon as possible. When you get married, I will be practical. "
My wife, Zhu Jin, echoed, "Yes, get married and have children quickly. While I am still young, I can help you bring more. "
Gong Hanlin's words not only embarrassed Huang Yihui,
Even Gong Tiankuo frowned. Gong Tiankuo doesn't really want to get married so early.
27 years old, it's not too late to get married in the entertainment industry.
So Gong Tiankuo refuted his parents:
"Mom and dad, how can you be in such a hurry? Xiaohui and I will take another few years to consider getting married. "
Gong Hanlin didn't know what year his son was talking about.
But he knows that even in a year or two, many things will happen.
If it takes a long time, once the sweet period of love is over, there may be no more years to get married.
Gong Hanlin is sad. Seeing that his son was unwilling to listen to himself, he turned to Huang Yihui and asked, "Xiaohui, what do you think?"
Huang Yihui and Gong Tiankuo were born to speak the same language. "Listen to him."
Gong Hanlin's blood pressure rose instantly, and she looked at her son with a "heartache".
After seeing Huang Yihui off, Kim and Gong Hanlin talked about their ideas.
She thinks that two young couples have just fallen in love, and it's really a bit too urgent to urge marriage. Take your time.
Gong Hanlin thought for a moment, think it is such a reason. Two people together, "take your time."
Later, Gong Hanlin asked Gong Tiankuo to take Huang Yihui to his home whenever he had time.
The family drinks tea and chats together, and sometimes makes jiaozi and cooks some delicious food.
When relatives and friends have happy events at home, Gong Hanlin will take her son and future daughter-in-law to the wedding scene.
Let them experience the happiness after marriage,
If Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui are free, Gong Hanlin will book air tickets in advance.
Let two people go out to play.
A year later, Gong Hanlin mentioned marriage again.
Only this time, instead of being so straightforward, he invited Huang Yihui's parents.
He said to Huang Yihui, "Xiaohui, long time no see. Can I meet your parents? "
Huang Yihui recognized Gong Hanlin's meaning and didn't refuse.
Later, Gong Hanlin personally called Huang's parents and invited them to visit Beijing.
The enthusiasm experienced by Huang's parents after their arrival can be said to be the highest treatment for the Gong family.
Mr. and Mrs. Gong Hanlin personally cooked and took Huang's parents to visit various scenic spots in Beijing.
Seeing that the opportunity was almost here, Gong Hanlin mentioned two children at an appropriate time.
But I didn't expect Huang's parents to have opinions on this, so they agreed.
After returning home, Huang's parents began to persuade their daughters:
"Great family atmosphere is very good, there is no star shelf. Do you want to consider getting married? "
Although they will make two suggestions on their daughter's marriage, they will still let her decide for herself.
After listening to her parents' words, Huang Yihui also felt that she might be able to handle this relationship well.
Since then, every time I go to Gong's house, I will bring some small gifts.
Sometimes he will take over the housework in Kim's hands, which will make Gong Hanlin and his wife more satisfied.
In 20 14, Gong Hanlin, who couldn't wait, attacked her son Gong Tiankuo again to promote marriage.
Gong Tiankuo originally intended to go in one ear and out the other, but Gong Hanlin insisted too much.
He also made a "mental attack" on Kim.
Gong Tiankuo finally let go of this torture, and Gong Hanlin and his wife were very excited.
After 20 15, Mr. and Mrs. Gong Hanlin made intensive preparations for their son's marriage.
The house was also decorated according to Gong Tiankuo's love.
In the middle of 20 15, Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui finally got married hand in hand.
Just when Gong Tiankuo thought his ears were finally clean,
Gong Hanlin has started another wave of birth.
Only one month after marriage, Gong Hanlin began to have children one after another.
The young couple want to develop their careers while they are young.
Gong Hanlin said, "That won't do. Xiaohui is just right to have a baby at this age. After a few years, the risk of having children is too high. "
Kim once again followed her husband's words:
"Yes, I was not born at this time. Even if you succeed in your career a few years later, it doesn't make sense. The two do not conflict. "
At first, Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui wanted to get married at that time, so they never let go.
Finally, I couldn't bear the double "attack" of Mr. and Mrs. Gong Hanlin, and agreed to have children earlier.
In the same year, Huang Yihui became pregnant.
Gong Hanlin and his wife, whose dreams come true, are happily busy taking care of pregnant Huang Yihui.
Zhu Jin not only takes care of herself, but also often reminds Huang Yihui what to pay attention to during pregnancy.
At this time, Huang Yihui was held by his family like a giant panda.
In 20 16, Gong Hanlin became a grandfather as he wished. After Huang Yihui had a good rest, he was at work.
In order to take care of their little granddaughter, Mr. and Mrs. Gong Hanlin cut a lot of work.
In addition, they will help take care of the work of their son and daughter-in-law.
These Gong Hanlin couples don't feel tired at all, but they feel very happy.
Every New Year, Gong Hanlin will wrap three red envelopes, one for her little granddaughter and one for her son and daughter-in-law.
But Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui only enjoyed this quiet life for two years.
Gong Hanlin began to have a second child in those years.
This is exactly what Gong Hanlin wants. One child is too lonely, and two are just right.
Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui are still the same old fathers, and they didn't want to talk to each other at first.
Under more urging, Gong Tiankuo had an idea in his heart.
He always felt that his father interfered too much, and now he is always depressed.
In order to avoid the birth of his parents, Gong Tiankuo reduced the number of visits to his parents.
Sometimes it takes a long time to go there, and then Gong Hanlin found Huang Yihui himself.
Slowly, because of this, there is almost a gap between father and son.
Maybe they realized something. From then on, Gong Hanlin and his wife stopped talking about having a second child.
Gong Tiankuo, on the other hand, was interrupted as soon as his parents mentioned it.
Gong Hanlin was so anxious that she began to lose sleep and hair.
When Gong Tiankuo and Huang Yihui came to visit their parents, they were frightened by Gong Hanlin's haggard face.
Gong Tiankuo closed his mouth when he heard his mother say that they didn't have a second child and were too worried to sleep.
Gong Tiankuo and his wife talked about it when they got home.
The young couple made some ideological entanglements and finally unanimously decided to "live."
In 20 19, Gong Hanlin got her little granddaughter again.
Gong Hanlin looked at his two little granddaughters, all smiles.
After that, Gong Hanlin even reduced his working hours.
Stay with your little granddaughter wholeheartedly and grow up with them.
Now Gong Hanlin is 64 years old, with no regrets in her career and a happy family.
Gong Tiankuo's son's career is also developing steadily, while his daughter-in-law puts family first.