Why does the love between Grandma Jiang and Grandpa Song make people feel distressed when they settle down?

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In "An Jia", the most distressing things are Grandma Jiang and Grandpa Song. Grandma Jiang's parents left a house for the three sisters. The elder sister and the second sister both died, and the house was inherited by their sons Kuang Anbang and Zhu Xingguo.

Grandma Jiang wants to sell the house to save Grandpa Song's life, and there is no way to treat it at home. She wants to try abroad, and even figured out how to book a plane ticket abroad. She booked Grandpa Song in business class for more than ten hours. Grandpa Song is in poor health. I'm afraid she can't bear it. Grandma Jiang can save some money by booking economy class herself. Grandpa Song also wants to sell the house. After selling, he will buy an elevator for grandma Jiang. She's old. It's too inconvenient to climb the stairs. It's best to leave millions for grandma Jiang to support her old age. If there is any money left, give it to her two nephews.

The old couple feel bad for each other and are preoccupied with each other's good. This kind of love is really touching. However, both nephews were heartbroken. First, they make things difficult and want to divide more property and pay the full amount in one lump sum. Moreover, two people, echoing each other, told Zhu Xingbang that he was from other places and didn't understand the Shanghai market. They all listen to the big cousin and aunt, no problem.

However, when Kuang Anguo wanted to get 5% more, Zhu Xingbang said, we are all family, so why bother? The meat has rotted in the pot, so we don't have to share it with each other. Kuang Anguo's daughter-in-law also gave him a hand. The yard and the main room should be on the first floor, which has nothing to do with Grandma Jiang. Partner bullying the elderly, Kuang Anguo takes the lead, and Zhu Xingbang is still a good man behind.

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Mr. Liao couldn't get all the money, so he went to the head office to talk about the advance payment, but Zhai refused. Grandpa Song is critically ill and has been admitted to ICU. Fang and his two brothers discussed whether Grandma Jiang could take out the loan on the second floor to save lives, but Zhu Xingbang took it back directly, and the loan has not been repaid. Can our house be sold in the future? Don't even think about it Finally, Aunt Xu's good brother Ding Sola was willing to pay the full amount and buy the old villa without bargaining.

The two brothers began to desperately deny that they would not sign. Kuang Anguo said that he was on a business trip and was ill. Zhu Xingbang said that he could only sign it if his big cousin signed it. Grandma Jiang had to come and invite two nephews. Kuang Anguo said, you really have gone too far. Go to the hospital and let me sign. My uncle is ill, so am I. You can't make me die. Let's change my life.

Kuang Anbang's daughter-in-law even said to Grandma Jiang, "I don't understand. Can selling the house cure my uncle's illness? " The abacus of the two nephews has been cracked. If the house is not sold, Grandma Jiang can't spend the money. After the two old people left, the money was all theirs.

Grandpa Song didn't survive and left. Grandma Jiang was so sad that she suddenly left.

Kuang Anguo and Zhu Xingbang were so happy that they immediately found an intermediary to sell the house. Grandma Jiang has no children, and all the property belongs to them. Grandma Jiang and Grandpa Song treated them as their sons all their lives, but in the end they still didn't understand why. Grandma Jiang murmured, leaving a lonely figure in the long corridor of the hospital.

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Kuang Anguo and Zhu Xingbang used their youth to bully Grandma Jiang and Grandpa Song for their kindness and old age. Such descendants are really chilling. In real life, there are many such things. Bing Xin, do you remember the little orange lamp she wrote? That gentle light also grew with us.

Bing Xin was born in 1900, with a prominent family. Bing Xin is the first girl in the family to study, and she is completely free to study and get married.

During the Republic of China, many talented women had unhappy marriages, but Bing Xin was different. She met the talented Wu Wenzao at the age of 23 and got married at the age of 28. They have lived together for 56 years. Whether they live abroad or are classified as Rightists, their lives are bleak and hard, or they are dying. They all love each other, depend on each other closely, and are a pair of human beings.

Bing Xin said:

"Love is on the right, sympathy is on the left, walk on both sides of the road of life, sow seeds at any time, blossom at any time, decorate this long journey with fragrant flowers, so that pedestrians who wear branches and brush leaves will not feel pain and tears, nor will they feel sad."

Wu Wenzao, Jiangyin, Xie Wanying and Changle should be together forever.

However, Bing Xin's children and grandchildren are somewhat sad. Son Wu Ping and Chen Lingxia have a marriage, and a son Wu Shan. Wu Shan said that his father was very unkind to his mother, and he had cheated. Wu Shan arrested him and wrote a letter of guarantee, but these didn't change his father.

The lawsuit of parents' divorce lasted for six years. Wu Shan thinks that her mother is weak, the division of property is unfair, and she has cancer. Wu Shan asked her father to give her two houses and millions of cash, and also asked him to take care of his seriously ill mother. But these requirements have not been fulfilled, and Wu Shan is particularly angry. Wushan took six people and entered the cemetery without registration. On the tombstone of Bing Wuxin Wenzao, he wrote in red that "the godson has no way to waste this life". It is said that Wu Shan tried to destroy the tombstone, but the staff stopped him.

Wu Shan said that he can apologize for this, but he has no regrets. He just wants to talk to his grandmother about family affairs. Wu Shan's mother said that she didn't know about it. She thought it was wrong to do so, but Wu Shan was really filial. He had been with her since she was ill.

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It's hard to say whether it's right or wrong, but it's impossible for our biological father and son to insult and trample on the tombstone of the deceased for millions of dollars. Filial piety is only for one's own mother. What should grandparents do? What is the dispute between the living and the dead? Once upon a time, there was an uncle Lin who raised four children. His son died unexpectedly in his early years, and his uncle and aunt brought up his eldest grandson.

Later, my aunt died, and Uncle Lin was old. However, the three daughters do not want to support the elderly and think that they should be supported by their grandchildren. The old man devoted all his life to his children and grandchildren. The third daughter once borrowed 654.38 million yuan from the old man. The old man wanted to come back for retirement, but his daughter refused, saying that the old man would squander all his money. In recent years, he has kept it for the funeral of the elderly.

Helpless, the old man found a nursing home, with a monthly fee of 1.200 yuan. With such consumption standards, he can imagine the living standards of the elderly. But his three daughters are unwilling to lend a helping hand, and his grandson thinks he is too young, unmarried and unable to support the elderly. The former daughter-in-law feels that her ex-husband has been dead for many years and has no obligation to support the elderly. Since she has three daughters, she shouldn't drag the children down.

Just like in "An Jia", Grandma Jiang and Grandpa Song have always been willing to bear hardships for themselves, and let their nephews bear more. They don't understand why their nephews are struggling. Kindness and reason can't explain these behaviors clearly, but we are all old, and we will have a stable old age when we are old. May kindness be relied on and friendship be warm.