So what should we do? 1. Admit your mistakes, repent, and admit the mistakes you have made in your life. You can have infinite compassion and solve endless pain between thoughts. 2. Eat less meat and eat more vegetarian food! Eating meat is killing, and physical pain is not necessarily related to this festival. 3. Do good deeds, do more good deeds, honor parents, and be harmonious with colleagues.
Because of this, if you make these changes, the previous monks will naturally ignore you! And it is possible to meet again in the afterlife.
It's not very important to burn incense in the temple. Burning incense is for yourself, and the Bodhisattva will not answer you! You do good things for others. Considering this, ten gods and ten buddhas will naturally help you.