So one year during the Spring Festival, because of this, my friend went back to her mother's house with two children, and my husband went home alone. Both of them have been in the cold war for a long time.
I don't think it's necessary to go to such extremes. In fact, it can solve this problem very well.
First of all, * * * to discuss.
It must be remembered that when there are any problems between husband and wife, the most important thing to remember first is to communicate well. At the same time, one of the main reasons for the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife is communication, so both husband and wife should discuss with each other and communicate well on the question of who to return to during the New Year.
Second, form a law.
On the basis of mutual respect, after good discussion, form a rule. The two men discussed how to go back to their parents' home for the New Year, either to find their own mother, or to go back to their parents' home once a year, or to receive the old people from both sides for the New Year. There is no need to hurt the feelings between husband and wife for this problem.
Once again, * * * has a solution.
Feelings need two people to maintain, so any problems in marriage need two people to solve. If a person goes his own way, it will only lead to the emotional breakdown of the last two people, and even more serious problems will appear. There is no need for two people with good feelings to ruin their feelings for the question of who to go back to during the New Year. It's that two people should think of each other and each other.
Communication is the premise and key to solving problems. Never forget the original intention of marriage and the love of both parties.