The first point is that I have many friends in high school. They and I are both in trouble. Preparing for the college entrance examination is so hard. Without mutual companionship and encouragement, I certainly can't persist. Sometimes the company of family is not enough. After all, I stay at home for less than eight hours a day, so I am still a day student, let alone a boarder. Therefore, the feelings between high school students are deep and real.
This is not the case in universities. I think there is a barrier between high school and college. After that, we will step into the adult world, and it will be difficult to be good friends again. My father always told me that it is necessary to guard against others, but it may produce harmful feelings. He is always worried that I won't retaliate when I am bullied in the collective life, so he keeps nagging me not to be too sincere. It is difficult for you to make good friends in college.
I believe my father's words now. I think it's my luck to make a real friend in college for four years, and college doesn't have as many good memories as novels on TV. I only remember studying and working step by step every day. I don't remember many details, unlike high school. Until now, I still remember many details together.
University is not a place to endure hardships. Not only that, you should also be careful of the difficulties brought by others.
Second, although the university is very free, it is in this seemingly free contrast that I miss the bondage of high school more and more. Although high school is restricted a lot, I am very hard and happy every day. As long as you don't break the law and commit crimes, you can do whatever you want, but you have to take possible risks, so sometimes I miss my high school.