Why do many parents object to sibling love?

Parents are opposed to sibling love for three reasons: age difference, ideological difference and fear of being gossiped. In fact, many parents still stay in the traditional era and think that children need to find a suitable age for falling in love. In today's society, most couples are either the same age or the man is older than the woman. In particular, it is common for boys to be older than girls, which affects the public's idea that two people should be older than girls.

When parents are influenced by this concept, they can't accept the love of brother and sister. If the age difference between the two is not very big, there may be only a little objection, but if the woman is much older than the man, both parents are unwilling. Therefore, no matter what kind of factors are affected, some parents will have the idea of opposing their sister-in-law's love.

The age gap can be considered if it is three to five years old, but if it is over five years old, especially if the woman is five years older than the man, it is recommended to give up. Because in terms of physical conditions, physical condition and other aspects, if you are more than five years old, then with the change of time and the growth of age, the physical differences and psychological differences between men and women will lead to the growing gap between them, and the gap between them will become increasingly mismatched, especially after 50 years old, men may look younger and women may look older, so the happiness index between you may be lower. Therefore, it is suggested that the difference between men and women is over five years old, especially that women are more than men.

If you are under five years old, you can consider the mental maturity between men and women, especially the man's mind, and consider whether the man is more capable of undertaking er. The main reason why parents don't agree is that the younger one is not mature enough to bear the heavy responsibility of the family, so it is opposed. If your other half is still young, but mature enough to take on the heavy responsibility of the family, can give you happiness and mature things, and has always been firm in love, and will not be influenced too much or negatively by parents. Then, your love is quite mature. Go on and strive for the goal of establishing a family.

If this condition is ripe, you can consider using your own wisdom, pay attention to changing ways and means, and get through the work of the other parents. The first is time. You can stick to it and prove to everyone through time that it is appropriate for you two to come together. Thirdly, some skills and methods can be adopted to win the consent of the other parents and persuade them, but it requires patience and determination. In a word, if you want to be firm together and think they are suitable, then you should be firm in your beliefs and pay attention to ways and means.