Nowadays, many families, as parents, grandparents and even children themselves, think that children are the youngest, so drumsticks (the best food in the family) should be given to the youngest children. And is this kind of family education appropriate?
I think the instructor in Love Wars said: This is unscientific. The reason is: 1. This does not give children a correct concept that all family members are equal, and always gives them the most on the grounds that they are the youngest. Where is the position of the elders? Parents have worked hard to raise their children. Does the child realize it? Is it filial piety? Are old grandparents respected and cherished? Then, from children's small age and small behavior habits, have you taught them to respect the rules of their elders?
2. Children get the best at home since childhood. Parents and elders always unconditionally reduce their needs for their children, which will give them an illusion. I deserve the best in my family, and it is right for my elders to pay for me. They should focus on my needs, which may lead them to be old-fashioned when they grow up. I think it is natural for my parents to pay for me, and I am used to it, so I still ask for it when I grow up, lacking gratitude!
So, who should the chicken legs at home be given to? Every family member has the right and opportunity to eat drumsticks, which can be distributed by lottery, scissors, stones and cloth, or by turns. Of course, the person who gets the chicken leg has the right to give his chicken leg to anyone he wants, which is his freedom!
Therefore, the education of children exists in trivial matters and habits, and everywhere is an opportunity for us to set an example and set rules for our children. We should treat it with heart! This gave me an important lesson and gained knowledge!