There was a time when I was particularly impetuous. So I signed up for a tour group and became the so-called? A donkey friend? Any circle has hidden rules, and friends circle is no exception. Let's talk about the hidden rules of the circle of friends with my experience. I hope you can pay more attention in the future.
First, you can't ask for specific personal information. For every friend who participates in the circle of friends, coming out to play is to relax, so everyone will not talk about their daily life and work. What people get together to talk about most is some details about this activity, such as how to set up tents and how to cook meals. If you ask the age, home address, work unit and income of the friends around you at this time, you have actually committed the taboo of the circle of friends. If someone asks you to call him Xiao Zhang, an eagle or something, you should follow suit. Don't get to the bottom of it, ask him his real name. It's really rude
If you think there is nothing to talk about, you can talk more about the places you have been before and the knowledge about survival in the wild. In short, it's best not to talk about your common interests in life and work.
Secondly, food, water, lamps and personal belongings can be easily borrowed. For donkey friends, survival in the wild is a big deal. So it is not easy to borrow personal necessities, food and water, and of course it is not easy to borrow other people's things. Because these things are lifesaving in the wild.
If you want to be a qualified donkey friend, you must plan your food and water before going out, because everyone has limited food with him. If I lend it to you, others will not be enough. This is a life-saving thing in the wild. If I lend it to you, other people's lives will not be so secure.
Don't borrow personal items such as sleeping bags from others easily except food and water. You can squeeze into the same tent, but sleeping bags really can't. I almost forgot to mention that light is hard to borrow.
Third, complain less and follow the team. Everyone is in a circle of friends, and it is inevitable that differences will arise because of different ideas. Don't complain at this time. In any case, everyone is a group. To achieve the planned goal, we need to work together. In the face of nature, human power is too small. If you are not United at this time, don't take part in the activities as early as possible. Less complaining, more tolerance and understanding, this trip will be perfect.
And as a team, for whatever reason, don't act privately. If you do this, it will not only delay the trip of the whole team, but also put you and the whole team in danger sometimes. Therefore, the most important point of the hidden rules of the circle of friends is: more tolerance, more understanding and more unity.
Fourth, business is more important than personal affairs. When traveling with other donkey friends, sometimes you will meet some things that need everyone's cooperation and Qi Xin? Business? Such as chopping wood, cooking, fetching water, making a fire, etc. Generally speaking, there are one or two people in the team who are responsible for organizing the work? The backbone? , will arrange the donkey friends to participate in the work. When assigning tasks, travelers should remember to put aside their private affairs and give priority to these assigned businesses, because this is the default obligation of individuals in the circle of travelers, so when they have spare time, they should take the initiative to help others complete other work. This is a reflection of the team spirit of the circle of friends, and it is also highly respected and valued by friends.
5. Be responsible for yourself. Even a novice who is engaged in outdoor travel for the first time should make full preparations before going on the road and pay attention to warm-up before departure. General circle of friends? Hidden rules? Is to be responsible for yourself, can't have the idea of relying on others. Therefore, when you are about to engage in some challenging outdoor activities, you should do some adaptive training at least half a month to one month before departure to improve your physical strength and endurance. At the same time, you should make full preparations for diet and rest, supplement necessary nutrition and ensure adequate sleep. If possible, you can warm up a little every time you do outdoor activities. For example, if you want to hike 100 km, you can do a few short walks of 20 or 30 km first, so as to consider your physical strength.
Sixth, third, it is not allowed to remember, and it is not allowed to suddenly go to the donkey friend's house to disturb others' normal life without the consent of the donkey friend; You are also not allowed to borrow money from a donkey friend (this is just a hidden rule in the circle of donkey friends, but if you are a friend, you should also remember that if a friend borrows money, don't borrow money in a hurry). It is not allowed to reveal the personal privacy of the donkey friend casually, such as phone number, home address, work and so on.
In addition, outdoor sports pursue a simple relaxation and happiness, away from the hustle and bustle of the city and the entanglement of secular dust. So these hidden rules are still necessary. As a donkey friend, you must be responsible for yourself and never give others trouble. After all, everyone came out to relax, not to make trouble.