Five years apart-the transition period from love to affection! It is the most critical and fragile period for two people. It is the biggest time test for the relationship between men and women, and it is also the most difficult gap to cross. In the past, everyone was very happy and it was hard to let go.
The seven-year itch-the seven-year itch actually lies in this "itch", and the restless heart is irritable and itchy. Its real crisis lies not in both men and women, but in the intervention of a third party, which tickles my heart when I want to cheat.
Ten years of commitment-make it a positive result. Congratulations on coming here, it's been ten years! What should have happened has happened, and what should not have happened has also happened. Men and women have long formed habits and tacit understanding together and become a real family, just like your parents, and even their feelings for their partners have surpassed their parents! You two have become the closest partners in the world.
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Contributing factors:
First, life is too lonely.
Most divorced couples are separated from each other, have no normal sex life, and their feelings are not as passionate as before. At this time, if one spouse can't stand loneliness and has a third party, the marriage may fall apart instantly.
Second, lack of understanding and care.
Most men, because of their social roles, are sometimes even more reluctant to express their pain and pressure, but often hide it in their hearts. At this time, men need to understand. While women have their own jobs, they have traditionally taken on more family responsibilities, and they are also eager for the care of their husbands when they are tired.
It is inevitable that both sides have omissions, but there are too many trivial things in daily life, and they always pay attention to one thing and lose another. Every day, the other person's computer, TV and telephone have completely turned life into monotonous excitement.
In fact, it is ok to enjoy a high-quality life, but it is best not to be its slave. It is suggested that the young couple turn off their phones frequently, live an unplugged life, go out to play, and then return to the era of love.
Third, the needs of work and entertainment.
Work is inseparable from eating. Work and play, beer and skittles, beer and skittles are indispensable. Sometimes you have to do something against your will. Of course, you also have your own circle of friends. You have to do some shameful things in order to work and gain each other's trust. Sometimes there's really no way. However, other times, you actually have to turn a blind eye to your lover.
Fourth, the work pressure is too great.
There are many "modern diseases" in modern society, with great work pressure and tight pace of life. It's easy for my husband to bring his work mood home. As a result, he is still thinking about his work when he sleeps, and naturally he is listless, let alone get a good sleep.
Most modern women are no longer housewives, because they have their own careers, and their self-esteem and self-confidence are pushed to the extreme by work. They also often work hard and come home exhausted. At this time, men and women are most likely to have conflicts, and their emotions will be more violent than usual. Sexual life is sometimes a good medicine to relieve stress, but many people fail to make good use of it.