In fact, it is easier to decide who to choose. The material conditions must be similar, and you are not much different. Otherwise, I wouldn't be a blind date.
It mainly depends on your personality. If you are a self-motivated person, for example, if you want to do great things, you must need a self-motivated wife.
If you want to be indifferent all your life and your wife and children are hot, then you are not motivated. So you can live together.
In short, choose a person who is in the same strain as himself in ambition and attitude towards life. Otherwise, it is easy to quarrel or even fight in the future.