First, when applying for a visa, it's best not to ask such multiple-choice questions, but to ask "Is it good to continue" or "Is it good to put it down?" This will help to clear up the ambiguity.
Second, the so-called hobby. What is fate? Love is fate. People with congenital marriage will fall in love, get married and get along. How two people communicate, understand each other, tolerate each other and complement each other depends on the efforts of both sides to come up with a tacit understanding. How can you treat marriage lightly? Since you can choose to marry him, I think he must have something to attract you. The marriage has just begun, and you have already backed out. If you think it is hasty to decide to get married so soon, is it hasty to choose divorce now?
Personal opinion: everything is difficult at the beginning, and so is living together. Don't give up easily. Talk to him. If you have any different ideas, you can speak out and reach an agreement. Give him some leeway and give yourself some time to try and see if he can make progress. If he really can't, it's not too late to decide now.