How to fight with yourself and win yourself?

One night, a lady came to the airport to wait. She bought a book and a bag of biscuits at the airport store, and then found a place to sit down. She was immersed in the book, only to find that the man sitting next to her was so shameless that he grabbed a biscuit or two from the bag between them from time to time. She tried to avoid it, but when the cake thief continued to steal her cookies, she became more and more angry. Every time she takes a biscuit, he also takes one. When there was only one piece left, a smile appeared on his face, which was a little stiff. He grabbed the last biscuit and split it in half. He handed her half and ate the other half himself. She snatched half a cake from him and thought, God, this guy is so funny, but he is rude. Why didn't he even say thank you? When the airport informed her to board the plane, she was relieved, packed her luggage and walked to the door, refusing to look back at the "thief and ungrateful man". She boarded the plane, sat down, and looked for her nearly finished book. When she reached into her luggage, she was breathless with surprise: her hand touched a bag of biscuits! That rude and ungrateful "cake thief" is himself!

There is no "enemy" in life, but the biggest enemy is yourself. Because people often see the shortcomings of others, but it is difficult to find their own mistakes; People will advise those who fall into the wrong path in rolling in the deep, but under the temptation of interests, it is difficult to lead an honest and clean life ... A truly brave person should dare to duel with himself; The final victory belongs to those who overcome themselves.

One night, a young man walked to the edge of the cliff distraught. He felt that life was boring, tired of the loneliness and hardships in the world, and determined to jump off a cliff and commit suicide. Suddenly, something came and he couldn't help listening. It was the baby's crying. Suddenly, an unprecedented excitement hit his mind. He felt like killing himself, and he was really sorry for his parents' kindness. He struggled to escape the temptation of death and ran with the cries and lights. The young man who decided to commit suicide by jumping off a cliff was none other than Turgenev, who later became a great Russian writer. Later, Turgenev once said: "If you want to defeat the outside world, you must first defeat yourself. Although our life is short and small, all great things are created by human hands. When he was alive, he achieved his lofty task, which was his supreme happiness. " Turgenev is the winner of a duel with himself.

On one occasion, Dumas, a French writer, had an argument with a proud and domineering young politician. Under the arrangement of the middleman, they agreed to draw lots to decide their fate, and the loser would shoot himself. Dumas lost as a result. With a gun in his hand, he walked into another room with a serious look and closed the door behind him. Everyone was anxiously waiting for the shot. However, after a long time, gunshots rang out and both opponents and companions rushed to the room. When I opened the door, I saw Dumas holding a smoking gun in his hand and said disappointedly, "Gentlemen, the most regrettable thing happened-I missed it." Dumas went on to say, "It is respectable to keep my promise, but it is not only stupid for me to make meaningless sacrifices for trivial things, but also I will not let my opponent do so." Dumas solved this problem in the most humorous way, which makes people feel that he is a wise man, a strong man in life and a winner in a duel with himself.

If a person wants to defeat others, he must first defeat himself. If you want to beat yourself, you must be the winner of the duel with yourself. Before you win others, you must defeat yourself first!