Parents have been exploring and studying the education of their children. For most families, it is hoped that children will develop morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically in an all-round way and form good moral character. However, some parents connive at their children's behavior, which leads us to find many tireless Xiong Haizi in our daily life. But in my opinion, Xiong Haizi is not terrible. What's really scary is the parents of the bear.
I'm not afraid of Xiong Haizi, but I'm afraid of Xiong's parents. The girl's fitting room was pulled by the boy, but he insulted her.
The reason for this is that the parents of these bears don't feel any problem when facing their children's mistakes, and they will defend their children or defend them when facing other people's accusations. It seems that it is not their own children who make mistakes, but others, which will undoubtedly lead to the ideological distortion of these Xiong Haizi people. As the saying goes: look at the old at three, look at the old at seven. Some things can't be disciplined just because children are young.
Recently, one thing on the platform triggered a heated discussion. It happened in Xinyang, Henan. A young woman was shopping to try on clothes, and two boys kept pushing the curtains in the fitting room. Moreover, the two boys not only kept looking inside, but also tried to get in. The woman was very afraid of the behavior of the two boys and said, don't come in! However, his words and deeds did not stop the two Xiong Haizi's actions, so the woman said helplessly and loudly: No matter who the child is, there are still people trying on clothes!
I thought Xiong Haizi's parents would take her away quickly and apologize to her, but it was beyond everyone's expectation. After hearing someone say their children, the two parents began to insult the woman's quality and had an argument with the two-year-old child. But we can see from the picture that the height of these two children has reached the waist of their parents. How can they be two years old? Moreover, during this time, the parents of these two children have been acting excessively, so this lady wants to make a video to safeguard her rights and interests.
Unexpectedly, seeing the lady's behavior, the two parents in Xiong Haizi suddenly rushed up and snatched the mobile phone. The whole process is very barbaric and unreasonable. Although some shop assistants stopped the whole process, they were firm with the lady and tried to beat her many times. This scene also frightened the girl, who hid in the fitting room until the two parents in Xiong Haizi left with their children. Things have caused great public opinion on the Internet so far, but according to the parties, they have not received an apology from the two parents so far.
The girl's fitting room was torn by the boy, and the parents insulted instead of apologizing, which also triggered a hot discussion among netizens.
As things continue to ferment, the party involved in this incident, that is, the woman who was abused by Xiong Haizi's parents in the fitting room, also responded to this incident on social platforms, saying that her parents had been lying. The two children are not two years old at all, but they look about five years old, and they also insult that they are engaged in a "special occupation." These two Xiong Haizi's fathers are still fanning the flames. It's really "not that one family doesn't enter one household"!
Netizens also expressed their views on this matter. Judging from the comments of netizens, everyone is still very wise. Some netizens said: What kind of parents educate what kind of children. Take care of your children, and society will help you discipline them in the future. Some netizens said: I knew it was bad when I showed my face, and I wanted to grab my mobile phone. Is it okay to be peeked at while changing clothes?
In fact, what netizens said is also very reasonable. Children aged 5 or 6 already have a sense of gender. Looking at the whole thing, children of this age should be punished for being naughty and making mistakes, rather than blindly covering up and conniving. The most irritating thing about this is the behavior and attitude of parents. It doesn't matter if you make a mistake, it's important to correct it. When children bring troubles and troubles to others, the first thing to do is to apologize, but these two parents are just the opposite. With such a wrong demonstration, the moral quality of these two Xiong Haizi will not be much better.
As the child's first teacher, parents should always pay attention to their words and deeds to avoid bringing bad influence to their children.
The formation of a person's moral quality is closely related to his parents' teaching and contact with society. The formation of children's ideas mainly comes from parents' guidance before contacting with external things. As the child's first teacher, parents should always pay attention to their words and deeds to avoid bringing bad influence to their children.
Only by doing our best can we help children establish correct ideological and moral concepts. Only when children make mistakes can they be dealt with in time and bring good examples to children. Xiong Haizi doesn't necessarily have bear parents, but bear parents will definitely have Xiong Haizi. I hope that parents must have a correct concept and work style when educating their children, which is also the best lesson for children.