Rural children and urban children grow up in different environments, so their values, outlook on life and world outlook are also different. For example, when classmates have dinner on weekends, I feel that eating a meal is a luxury. After all, if I eat in the school cafeteria, a good meal costs only a dozen dollars. If I eat out, I have to share at least a few tens of dollars, which is enough for me to eat in the cafeteria for several days. So it will feel very worthless. So when I was a freshman, I didn't take part in the so-called dinner party of my classmates or roommates. Because of my excavation, I didn't integrate into their circle. There is no need to be strong in a circle that cannot be integrated.
Not only children born in rural areas, but also children born in county towns, are difficult to integrate into urban life. It stands to reason that the county economy will be more developed, and children in the county should be more easily integrated into urban life than children in rural areas. This is true, but as long as you don't grow up in this circle, it is difficult for you to integrate into the life of this circle. Like my roommates, they were born in a small town, so their so-called activities are nothing more than ordinary frugality for occasional luxury. They just created their own small circle and didn't really integrate into city life. It is very different from those city children I know. No matter how much you want to integrate into city life, you will be fundamentally different from people born in real cities.
Of course, the examples I cited are all what I have seen and experienced, which does not mean that everyone can't fully integrate into urban life. It's really not easy to integrate into city life. Even if you have a lot of money in the future, you may not be able to really integrate into city life. But if you work hard, your children may be able to fully integrate into city life.