There are always problems to reflect on, and don't listen to people saying that you have opinions. If you want to be happy, you should be kind to others and do good deeds, which will naturally ensure peace and health.
This sign should be a flat sign. I ching emphasizes virtue. It is often not smooth, that is to say, the virtue is not thick, and it is necessary to accumulate virtue and do good. Asking for marriage should also be implemented as "being kind to others" in the contract. Do more good deeds and you may have a good marriage.