However, judging from the signing of the contract, it is safe to have tigers in the mountains, Yi Long in the auspicious days, and there can be no two kings, otherwise there will be struggles and mutual influence, but both sides will lose. The ancients said that "husband and wife are different", which means that husband and wife have their own responsibilities. Some people are responsible for supporting their families outside, while others are responsible for taking care of the life of the family. Only with proper internal and external cooperation can a family be healthy. So it's not that you're hopeless. It's just that everyone has different responsibilities. It is the best help for your husband that you can take care of the housework and try your best to make your family healthy and frugal.