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Entanglement is inseparable, I do not know when, we are more and more sensitive to anxiety.
Seeing others' hurried steps, we dare not stop, lest our stagnant self become an alternative.
It seems that in today's society, anxiety is a naked normal life.
Only when your life is related to anxiety, can it be regarded as being tuned to an approved channel, otherwise, your life will be too lazy and decadent, and it will be filled with other people's noisy noises from time to time.
After graduating from the college entrance examination, my classmates went to Guangzhou to study, and naturally stayed there to work and pursue their dreams after four years.
I work as a copywriter in a medium-sized company with a monthly salary of 6,000 yuan. I live in a subsidized house. I can't say that life is luxurious, but it is comfortable.
However, in her circle of friends, seeing more information is her complaint and dissatisfaction.
In her words-I need a broader platform to escape from now!
In March last year, she used her spare time, personal connections and business trips abroad to set foot in online stores, hoping to build her own additional platform and income source, strengthen her material foundation and enhance her social status. I hope that once the time is ripe, I will choose an office worker who jumps out of the bondage and take charge of my own door.
When chatting, she said:
It is a rare luxury to go to bed before 12: 00 at night.
Getting up at six o'clock in the morning is already a common occurrence.
After six hours of sleep every day, she struggled to find a way out, eager to meet better herself in the bustling city.
Stay up late to write the planning case, organize the company documents, and complete the tasks assigned by the boss with the fastest speed and energy.
Then manage another living space of your own in your spare time and build your own brand. Sometimes, I stay up until the early hours of the morning, continuing my enthusiasm and sobriety with cups of coffee, chasing as if the coming good luck.
How easy is it to run your own platform? How can a person have so much energy and wisdom? When the ideal you expect is not as brilliant as you think, you will vomit and complain, accumulate more and more, be full of complaints and be full of negative energy.
However, she was too tired and overworked. At one time, she had a fever, a cold and even a migraine. It was not until her normal work began to be affected that she slowly began to reduce the extra pioneering work.
Many times, it's not that the world you live in is full of too much pressure, but that you have too many desires and too many burdens, and you can't even breathe on the heavy road.
The emergence of anxiety does not lie in how embarrassing life is. Many times, it is because of the greedy ego, constantly running, looking for and collecting the luck of life that we can always run in the forefront echelon in the trajectory of life.
? Diamonds are hidden where dedicated people can find them ()
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Instead of obsessing over the anxiety of those complicated lives, it is better to unload excess greed with a focused and chic attitude.
It has always been believed that anxiety comes from a vicious circle.
We are used to dabbling in more aspects, enriching ourselves, improving our social status, and suddenly changing ourselves from the original concentration and investment.
Being unable to concentrate on work is itself a kind of stimulation and induction of anxiety, which will make us constantly add anxiety factors to our hearts in a more relaxed state.
Perhaps this is why people who are dedicated and simple are more likely to make some achievements, while those who are greedy and lax are often obsessed with anxiety.
Like that funny story.
Looking for water in the same area is urgent and urgent at first.
Farmers keep digging and changing places. Digging shallow, leaving potholes, they are unwilling to assert: "there is no water in this place!" " "
As if he had been cheated by this land, he didn't know that cheating himself was an overly eager for quick success and instant benefit.
Another farmer, with the same tools and techniques, finally saw the spring gushing on the land under his feet after hard work and excavation.
Anxiety is a journey that everyone must go through, but some people choose to focus and persist to avoid imagining too many temptations around them;
Some people are eager to find after frequent transposition, and they are eliminated and kicked out early.
At the node of time, we need a little determination and calmness to deal with countless temptations and greed.
Worrying too much is often the limit of life ()
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A speech contest in college made me understand that greed is a poison.
I remember once taking part in a speech contest, just in time for the recruitment of school summer volunteer service activities.
The two activities were held on the same day, the volunteer activity was arranged in the morning, and the speech contest time was 65438+ 0:00 pm.
I was struggling for a long time.
It is not easy to enter the final of the speech contest, so I am so reluctant to give up.
However, summer volunteer service is an experience opportunity that I want to fight for since my freshman year. I don't want to give up either.
After struggling for an afternoon, finally, that greed made me participate in two projects.
After taking part in the volunteer recruitment activities, I was still in time for lunch, so I hurried to the lecture hall to participate in the lucky draw.
I was glad that I was smart and energetic, but the result came out and I was sad for a long time.
Perhaps, at that time, I gave up one and chose a project, which will definitely greatly increase my chances of speaking. It's not that you get nothing after attending two activities, but it increases fatigue and pain.
Too often, we will surrender and bow down before greed, expecting to get double returns, but often at the last node, people will go belly-up.
Even if you are too talented and brilliant, you can't resist the temptation. Those sharp arrows of greed and anxiety will make the castle you work for collapse when you wake up in the morning.
There is a saying in Yi Shu's "Round Dance":
On the journey of fate, everyone's performance time is stipulated and doomed. When it's time to leave, you have to leave
Love is like this, and so is everything in the world?
Want too much, but fate can only give you one.
Putting too many options that you can't control into your basket is just an extra burden and burden.
? It's not that luck is too far away from you, but that you don't know how to use the resources in front of you ()
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A person's achievements tell a person's ability to resist temptation.
A person's cultivation reveals a person's mentality of choosing concentration.
Don't complain that you always miss luck, and you will fake your luck after you settle down.
Don't fly around like a hurried fly, there is no direction.
Being a slave to anxiety is just another explanation for losing freedom.
When you are immersed in the wave of greed for too long, you will never regain your freshness and interest in life. You are no longer focused, no longer simple, and have long forgotten the road and itinerary you are going to.
Jobs once said:
Concentration and simplicity have always been one of my secrets. Simplicity may be more difficult than complexity, but once you do it, you can work miracles.
Focus and simplicity are often ignored and abandoned by us.
But it is this simple and simple mentality that is the way to resist temptation.