I feel that if there is no problem in principle, but everyone loses their freshness and passion, this situation still depends on you to change. Sometimes marriage is not to give up when there are problems, but to solve them when there are problems. Only by having the ability to solve problems can we maintain a good marriage.
Everyone's situation is different, and everyone's pursuit of marriage is different. If you have requirements for the quality of marriage, there is no need to continue this marriage that has no feelings or needs for you.
If you still have needs in this marriage, although you can't meet them emotionally, but you can meet your current needs in other interests, then you can choose not to divorce.
In our life, we will encounter many unexpected things, and the appearance of these things will sometimes cause certain troubles to our lives. In fact, the main reason is that we have different opinions and are unwilling to adopt each other's opinions. Some couples often quarrel about these things. After middle age, if there is no common language between husband and wife, it is mostly because they often have some quarrels with each other.
With the development of society, people have higher and higher requirements for materials. Want to live a good life, need to pay a lot of price. Some couples, in order to provide a good environment for the next generation, will choose to work in different places, which makes it difficult to meet for so long. When they reach middle age, most of them don't have the same topic with each other, and they don't take the initiative to contact each other.
Everyone experiences something different every day. After all, work and lifestyle are different. Even couples who live together will experience many different things. If the husband and wife find that they have nothing in common after middle age, then neither of them is in a good mood. The main reason is that they won't take the initiative to tell him what they have experienced because they don't know each other very well.
When two people first come into contact, they don't know each other very well, and they won't know some shortcomings of each other, but after living together for a long time, most of each person's shortcomings will be revealed. In this world, no one is perfect, and everyone has some shortcomings more or less. If a couple always complains about each other's shortcomings, most of them will not have the same topic after middle age.
For anyone, what kind of life you will lead depends on yourself. If you want to have a happy marriage, you should learn to be kind to each other. Middle-aged couples will still feel sorry for each other if they don't have a common topic or even a desire to talk. How about getting married? They need to run their own businesses. The continued marriage of middle-aged couples is not only an account of themselves, but also an account of their children.