Should college students deal with objects?

Positive view: you should not deal with objects. Because universities are pyramids, we come to universities to gild and learn knowledge. I will go to the society and lay a solid foundation in the future. If you are busy falling in love, you will delay your studies, part of your energy will be devoted to your feelings, and your energy in your studies will definitely be much less. You can talk about love for four years, and the university only has these four years.

Objection: It should be the object. In college, we should not only learn knowledge from books, but also increase our own experience: how to deal with interpersonal relationships better, how to choose in love and so on. This is also very important knowledge and experience, and it is also helpful for stepping into society in the future. Nowadays, many people are busy with their studies at school and their careers after graduation, and their feelings have been blank, so there are so many men and women left, but this is actually not a good phenomenon. Why not finish college before falling in love? This will not have much impact on learning. On the contrary, two people can help each other, which is more conducive to learning and progress. After graduation, two people can go to a city to develop together and lay a solid foundation for their future marriage. Nowadays, many people in society are materialistic, but couples who go out together in college don't value material things so much, but respect feelings more.

Positive view: Good partners are not necessarily found only in universities. Whether you can find a good partner is related to the opportunity and your own conditions, and has nothing to do with whether you can find it in the university. Who can guarantee that the object you are looking for in college must be good and doesn't value material things? What's more, many couples in college separated after graduation, and how many finally came together? After talking for four years, I finally broke up. Then we talked for four years, and the family spent so much money. Why?

Contrary opinion: It is true that many couples separated after graduation, but at least they had a wonderful process. You don't have to see the result first to do everything, and the process is also very important. And falling in love doesn't have to spend a lot of money at home. As long as you understand each other, you can work hard to make money together. It doesn't have to cost a lot of money for two people to be together.

Positive view: Why does this beautiful process have to appear in these four years? Living far away, there are many unmarried cohabitation in universities. We don't think this kind of behavior in college is good for both men and women. . . . .