Parenting process

The groom's bride selection process inherits the traditional bride selection custom. The groom needs to know the customs and procedures of picking up relatives.

Step 1: Prepare early.

The wedding day is very busy, and the bride and groom have to get up early to make all the preparations for the upcoming wedding.

Step 2: The groom knocks at the door.

When picking up relatives, the groom knocked at the door and asked his parents to open the door. The bride's family can give the groom a little trouble at home, but the process should not be too long.

Step 3: present a bunch of flowers.

After the parents opened the door, the groom presented flowers to the bride, and other photographers began to record this happy day.

Step 4: Find shoes.

After entering the bride's room, the groom needs to find the bride's wedding shoes. Generally, two wedding shoes will be hidden in an inconspicuous place in the room by relatives and friends, so as to embarrass the groom and create a funny and romantic effect. If the groom wants to find it quickly, here is a secret: red envelopes!

Step 5: Put a corsage on each other.

Wearing a corsage is also a bit particular. It is best for the groom to wear a corsage for the bride, the bride to wear a corsage for the groom, and the groom to wear a corsage for his parents-in-law. Then everyone will take a group photo together.

Step 6: Get to know relatives

The bride's parents stood at the door to greet the man and the reception team, and the groom introduced the reception relatives (from the elders) to his parents-in-law. After shaking hands, the two sides entered the house and sat down. The bride's parents and relatives entertained the man's receptionist.

Step 7: The groom changes his mouth.

When the bride's parents are seated, the bride and groom stand facing their parents. The groom officially changed his mind to call his father and mother and bowed three times. The groom lit a cigarette for his father and gave his mother a piece of candy. Parents reward the groom for changing his mind (one parent each, each 10 10 yuan, representing a thousand good sons-in-law). Parents say a few words of encouragement, entrustment and blessing to the bride and groom, and the groom promises his parents-in-law that he will treat the bride well and honor both parents.

Step 8: Eat noodles.

In the process of eating noodles, put two eggs in a bowl of noodles, and then the bride and groom put them in the middle for each other to eat.

Step 9: Change your high heels.

Generally, it is done by the bride's sister (if there is no sister, it can be replaced by relatives of other peers or younger generations). The groom carried the bride into the car, and a piece of red cloth was laid under the new shoes. After my sister dressed the bride's shoes, she put away her old shoes. At this time, the bride should reward her sister for changing shoes.

Step 10: Get out.

Relatives of both parties get on the wedding car, and the relatives of the bride's family get on the car first, and the relatives of the man get on the car later. There can be no empty cars. The bride and groom are in the first car, and the co-pilot is the bridesmaid; The second car is the groom's parents and the co-pilot is the best man. The third car is the bride's parents.

Step 11: Set off fireworks

After the bride's wedding car leaves, her family will set off firecrackers to see her off.

(Date: 2015-11-19)