The wall clock on the composition wall of Qin walked minute by minute, and the rhythm and law never changed. However, social progress has accelerated the pace of our life and intensified competition. At the same time, there have been more sighs of "human feelings are cold and warm, and the world is cold".
Perhaps competition is a necessary condition for progress. In the course of human development, competition runs through. But it is because of competition that the world becomes unpredictable ... will fierce competition dilute the warmth between people?
In a remote and backward mountain village, two good brothers were admitted to a key university, a computer department and a mathematics department at the same time. It should have been a double happiness, but now it has become a dilemma, because it is impossible for a family with financial difficulties to support two children to go to college at the same time. Then we had to draw lots. My father pulled out one with tears in his eyes and read, "Brother!" The younger brother jumped up in ecstasy, and the younger brother went out silently, without tears or complaints ... A week later, the two brothers took up their backpacks and left this backward mountain village. My brother went to school and my brother went to work ... Many years later, my brother graduated and found a job. He is going to study for his brother. At this time, my brother told him that the two notes were actually written by my brother. I secretly changed the note because I thought my brother needed to go to school more and the computer department had more prospects.
Hearing this story, I was shocked and moved at first, and then I felt sorry for my brother. Some people may think that my brother gave up his bright future, but you can calm down and think about it, and you will find what a wonderful story this is. In the struggle for his future, my brother chose humility. For no reason, he can only explain it this way: family is priceless!
In the competition between people, either you die or I die, and my brother chose humility. What we see is the warmth of the world. The ultimate goal of life is to enjoy love and care, but driven by interests and the cry of money, more people are numb in many blind competitions.
Two students call each other brothers. After graduation, they joined a company together, and they could get a raise if they were promoted. One of them often speaks ill of his friend in front of his boss, which leads to his resignation. Since then, the era of calling each other brothers has passed, and the two have become strangers, and things have gone away like this. Many years have passed, and the bad friends of that year have been promoted step by step, but every time in the dead of night, they will feel deep guilt. Finally dialed the long-lost number and released the apologies accumulated over the years. I hope my friends can forgive him.
In the process of progress, we need competition and passion to conquer the world. At the same time, we also need a peaceful mind to find warmth, feel warmth and appreciate life.
I am full of hope for my composition. The bell finally rang. Ah, school is finally over!
I flew home at 80 miles because I was really hungry! Mother has put the hot food on the table. Ah, it's my favorite "scrambled eggs with tomatoes" and "rice". The unique fragrance is really appetizing, and the saliva can't help flowing out. I symbolically washed my hands three times, five times and two times, and then rushed to the table, eager to eat. My mother looked at me as if I hadn't eaten for three days, shook her head, pushed the remaining half plate of scrambled eggs with tomatoes in front of me and said, "Slow down, don't choke." I quickly returned the food and said, "You also eat." But my mother didn't take the food back and said, "Eat more, it's time to grow up." I looked at my mother and sister and said, "Are you sure you don't want to eat? Then I'm welcome. " After that, I picked up the remaining half dish without hesitation and poured it into my bowl, thinking, I haven't eaten enough of anything delicious. At this moment, my sister suddenly stood up and said angrily, "How could you do this? Mom didn't eat at all! " I suddenly stood there-
Yes, how can I be so selfish? Kong Rong could make pears at the age of four, but I was thirteen-it suddenly dawned on me.
It's been a long time, but I feel as if it happened yesterday. Just like my shadow, it has been following me, reminding me that no matter what I do, I can't just care about myself, regardless of others, but also know how to be modest.
The composition about Jean went out early in the morning, strolled outside all morning, and we were hungry, so we found a ramen restaurant on the street. Just as we were about to sit down, there was a quarrel in our ears.
"kneel down, kneel down." I saw a young man talking angrily to a working boy in a ramen restaurant. The owner of the ramen noodle restaurant standing by: "I have said I am sorry for him, and besides, he has already admitted his mistake." You have a lot of adults, give him a break! "Having said that, Dongyang man still couldn't calm his anger and still called him dog blood. According to the people present, the thing is this: Because the customer thought Lamian Noodles was not delicious, he asked the young man to take the order, but he didn't expect him to say angrily for no reason: "Go away! Don't eat if it's not delicious! "Hearing this, the customer was short of breath and stood up on the table, which startled the people around him. In this way, the quarrel broke out in full view of the public ... Just when the two were tit for tat, the customer called a few friends to reason, and several people were eloquent, and passers-by next to them all gathered around to watch the excitement. My mother and I lost our appetite when we saw this situation.
On my way home, I said to my mother, "Who was right just now?" Mother said, "First of all, the young man was wrong. What guests need should be delivered immediately. How can you say such rude things? " Then the customer is wrong. Since the other party has admitted the mistake and said sorry, why force others to kneel? But I can't tell you why anyone is polite. ""I also want to, this big New Year's day, one thousand quarreled, as long as we give in to each other, we can resolve everything! Isn't there a program in the Spring Festival Gala saying that as long as we meet each other halfway, life will be wonderful? "
Teng Town, an unknown ancient town in the Netherlands, Derlager, has no traffic lights. People communicate with their eyes and gestures to reach a tacit understanding. Unknown drivers will give way at intersections. "Cars give way to bicycles and bicycles give way to pedestrians" has become the default rule of people, and their comity has created a traffic miracle.
The phenomenon of "no traffic lights" in the ancient Dutch town of Derlager Teng reminds me of the phenomenon of "ignoring traffic lights" in many places in China.
In cities of all sizes in China, traffic lights and electronic police are all over intersections and main roads, which can be described as complete facilities. But high-speed Mercedes-Benz cars often run red lights. If two cars meet in a narrow alley, "looking at each other" is not uncommon. You won't let me, I won't let you, and sometimes even swear words and fists are added. Ironically, in our country, "people let bicycles, bicycles let cars" has become people's "default rule".
It is harmful to be impolite, which makes us ashamed to be labeled as "an ancient civilization"
"Please queue up consciously" and "Please don't make noise" ... These warning signs marked in simplified Chinese are often seen in China's main destination countries, such as France, Germany, Japan, Thailand and Singapore. When a large number of tourists from China travel around the world, "China people" have become synonymous with uncivilized and rude.
What is the root of the phenomenon of "not understanding comity"?
Civilized people know comity, and the essence of comity is consideration and respect for people. The essence of not understanding comity is self-centeredness, not thinking about each other, not understanding and respecting each other. Many people are full of "Brother Kong Fangge" and have long forgotten the "legacy" of the ancients that "people are polite and safe, and rudeness is dangerous". At the crossroads, step on the accelerator and run at high speed in order to gain time to pursue your money, reputation and status; On the road of pursuing utility, "meeting in a narrow way" is bound to be a battle. ...
It can be seen that the root cause of "rudeness" is the lack of civilized accomplishment, the lack of understanding and respect for people, and the excessive pursuit of fame and fortune.
In this case, only by making China people realize the importance of civility and comity, and vigorously cultivating their civility, can the Chinese nation, an ancient country of etiquette, regain its new glory.
Politeness is a fine tradition of the Chinese nation. During the Warring States Period, Lin Xiangru gave up Lian Po again and again, and finally gave up "making peace", which became an eternal beauty talk. The ancients said: "Those who love others will always love others;" Respect others, and people will always respect them. It can be seen that the role of comity is unparalleled. Politeness is the buffer of interpersonal communication, which can reduce many unnecessary conflicts; Politeness is the lubricant of interpersonal communication, which can reduce friction and resolve tension.
Learning comity is only a little effort of each of us, which is good for ourselves, people and society, but it is not harmful. Why not do it? Easy interpersonal relationships need to be created by ourselves, and a peaceful and civilized environment needs everyone to learn to be polite. As long as everyone learns manners, the motherland can become a beautiful Gu Teng town.