? If we compare life to practice, there are three important Dojo in life practice. One is a family, the other is a school, and the other is an enterprise community or organization that works and lives. No matter which practice Dojo you are in, your heart and mind must be in direct proportion to your gains. There is a different class meeting, which is open and open, and walks into the hearts of every parent. It was a theme class meeting of "Tomorrow is a new day" good dad reading club, which was carefully designed by teachers who took education as their profession. Adhering to the concept of "let life affect life and soul affect soul", teachers are leading the growth of every child in this class and every family behind them. In fact, they are also leading our society to a civilized and happy growth. So I compare teachers to engineers of human souls! I call this class meeting "a different class meeting".
On May 25th, 20021,a similar class meeting was held in Class 20 1 of Xin Ming Central Primary School at 7: 30.
? This class meeting was organized by Mr. Wu Honghua and Mr. Chen, the head teacher, presided over by Dai Chen's father, and attended by the parents of the whole class. The class meeting takes "tomorrow is a new day" as the theme and "trust, communication and cooperation" as the content. Around children's learning and healthy physical and mental growth, the "trust, communication and cooperation" between home and school has been deeply exchanged and shared. Finally, with the warm applause and touching joy of all parents, all parents in Class 20/KLOC-0 have entered a more systematic and long-term mileage of reading, learning and growth. For the sake of children's strong growth, family's warmth and happiness, class's collective glory, and social harmony and civilization, the "New Tomorrow" reading club of class 20 1 further opened the reading and learning atmosphere of "parents and children grow together".
? 17:20, parents walked into the classroom. On every desk and chair, there is a card carefully prepared by teachers and children. A picture and a paragraph of text are children's voices to their parents. My daughter drew me a handsome cartoon, with a book and the word "reading" on my left shoulder and a mobile phone and the word "mobile phone" on my right shoulder. This is my daughter who wants her father to read more books and watch less mobile phones! I added one more on the left and one less on the right. Two words, it takes a long time to practice and cash! My father next door, Dai Chen, is also a painter, but there are many words, which are the communication between their father and son. Other parents are also seriously admiring the card gifts sent by their children, with meditation and communication. ......
17:30, Teacher Wu gave an opening speech, and Dai Chen's father began to preside over this secretive "different class meeting". Since Mr. Wu and Mr. Chen initiated the "New Tomorrow" reading activity of Good Dad, a large number of parents in the class responded positively, accompanied their children to study, and organized parents' weekend bookstores to accompany their children to study. A group of parents wrote down their experiences and insights during the activity.
First of all, this class meeting took "Let's be a learning father together" as the key link, made a reading sharing of "A New Day Tomorrow", and made an in-depth report and exchange with class parents on the gains of accompanying children to study, study and grow in the previous reading activities of "A New Day Tomorrow".
Zhu Yuxin's father shared my anxiety: "Children's unstable grades often make me anxious". Yu Xin is a child with high emotional intelligence. The teacher often mentions her and praises her. How can Yu Canxin's father be in a hurry? It turned out that Yu Xin's father was anxious about the unstable scores of his children. After a period of "Tomorrow is a New Day" reading activities, Yu Xin's father's anxiety was relieved and released. Yu Xin's father began to think about "love children or love children's grades", analyzed many reasons for poor test scores, spent more time with Yu Xin, and Doby children laughed, asked Yu Xin about interesting things that happened at school and cared about children's growth. And careful observation, patient counseling, timely praise, etc. Yu Xin's father studied through book club activities and applied what he had learned, which quickly helped Yu Xin stabilize his grades. Yes, life is long. As long as you accompany with your heart, you will gain a different sunny life.
Wang Zichao's mother shared: "Why are personal problems not suitable for class?" . Wang Zichao's mother explained that from the perspective of employees' salary and class privacy, personal questions are not suitable for publishing in the group. From the perspective of communication methods, this paper expounds some skills and methods to deal with problems: empathy, being good at listening, avoiding the use of strong words and emotional communication, emotional communication taboos, praise, body language and so on. ......
Chen Zhiyu's father shared my confusion: "Why can't the teacher reply to the information in time?" . Zhiyu's father deeply shared why the teacher couldn't reply to the information in time from the teacher's schedule and work role. Yes, as Teacher Chen said, if you send a message to the teacher every time, the teacher can reply every time. Do you think this teacher is educating your children? Does he have time to educate your children?
? Mother Xu Qiuyang shared: "The new era needs more harmonious home-school construction." The theme of home-school harmony has been mentioned in many schools and education systems, but there are too many obstacles and difficulties to implement it. There are many factors that affect the harmonious construction of home and school, such as family differences, individual differences of students, teachers' sense of responsibility, parents' cooperation, work pressure, emotions and so on. Despite so much help, Class 20 1 under the leadership of class teachers Chen and Wu, still made progress through the "Tomorrow is a New Day" Good Dad Reading Club. As long as we do well, every word carefully drawn by Mr. Chen on the blackboard carries the heart-shaped "trust, communication and cooperation". Harmony between home and school is trust, and the core of trust is sincere treatment. Secondly, communication is relatively convenient and smooth. Finally, we actively cooperate. We can do better in children's growth and education.
? Su Yunnan's father shared: "How do parents learn and grow?" . There are many ways for parents to learn and grow. Su Yunnan's father started from educating his children every day and gave us an exchange and sharing of real life education. The source of educating children is actually the family, and the parents of the family are the source. As long as our parents spend enough time with their children and correctly guide their values and behaviors, there will be no deviation in their growth. This requires our parents to learn and grow constantly and set an example for their children. Take the growth of children as the most important thing. Of course, the environment and conditions of each of our families are different. We are basically ordinary families, but there are too many ordinary families in this world who have given birth to extraordinary and excellent children. If you find the way, you are not afraid of the long way. As long as our parents keep learning and growing up and set a good example for their children, you don't have to look forward to their future. They must be more exciting than you think.
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? A class is a big family, and a small family of 357 has so many problems, not to mention a class group composed of 30 or 40 different families! Mr. Wu and Mr. Chen have carefully designed interesting lottery and prize-winning discussion sessions for the education and life of the class children.
? 1. My son doesn't study at home, so I can't help it. I want him to go to school to make up his homework the next day.
I sent a message to the teacher at 9 o'clock in the evening, but he didn't reply. He must look down on me.
? My son came back from school with bruises on his arms. He said he was caught by his classmates. I want to fight with other parents to see who has the strength.
I am very busy at work, but I ask my children if they have finished their homework every day, but the teacher doesn't understand me at all and calls me an irresponsible father.
? I am a peasant worker, and education should be undertaken by teachers.
? 6. I'm busy, I'm busy, he said it's done, he said it's not necessary, I'm busy.
? 7. Xiong Haizi can't eat well and sleep well. I want to call my teacher and let him get a good education.
? 8. It's really distressing not to meet the perfect teacher. ?
The above eight questions are answered and shared by parents selected by electronic lottery, and the teacher will reward a lollipop. This class meeting is getting more and more interesting.
Every mom and dad talked with their children about their experiences and puzzles. In fact, I finally found that the solution to the problem lies in the learning and growth of my parents.
Everyone has some unpleasant experiences in his life, ups and downs. We all make excuses for ourselves because of the pressure of work and life, saying "I tried my best" and neglecting the education and companionship of our children. However, it is still their parents who have the greatest influence on the lives of most great and satisfied people.
? Mr. Wu also carefully selected the sweet stories of the two brothers, Dr. and dr. zhang, who went back to their hometown to participate in activities and teased each other, the letter written by Academician Yuan Longping to his mother, and Mr. Mo Yan's Nobel Prize speech: the growth process of mother's bitter cultivation of her beautiful personality. Touched the soul of each of our parents, and we asked ourselves in our hearts. .......
The proudest growth and achievement of a child should be the success of being a parent. Of course, children's mistakes and failures should be the negligence of parents' education and the lack of companionship in the best time of children's growth. Children are copies, and parents are originals. Even ordinary parents should do their parents' duty well, take a good family position, scold less, read more books, set an example in front of their children, and guide and accompany their growth with love during the period when their children's most beautiful personality is formed and their study habits are laid.
? Finally, Mr. Chen, the head teacher, also summarized the children's study life and gave a speech on the summary activities of this class meeting. Teachers Wu and Chen, the designers of the class meeting, spent countless hours of overtime planning and preparation for today's wonderful presentation and touching interaction. In this class, teachers are devoted to education. Every child's growth affects the teacher's heart. Everything in the class, every activity, is soaked with the sweat of the teacher. Teachers only learn and grow happily for children, and children will be able to choose their own lives and master their own destiny in the future. As Teacher Chen said, "We always think that the children we have educated are excellent and outstanding, which is exactly what we are doing and working hard". Isn't it just to create a good home-school environment for children and develop independent reading habits and self-discipline spirit to hold a "Tomorrow's New Day" reading activity for good fathers and set up a reading club?
After Mr. Chen's speech, the student father sitting in the middle raised his hand and stood up, bowing deeply to the teacher. A few days ago, he sent a message to Mr. Chen about his poor exam results, but he didn't get a timely reply. He made a mistake in the group and sincerely apologized. The whole class applauded warmly, and 20 1 class returned to the highlight moment of trust, harmony, unity and cooperation between home and school.
In the burst of applause, a different class meeting ended, and the "New Day Tomorrow" good dad reading activity has now embarked on a new fast lane of happiness!