/kloc-married at the age of 0/8, her husband went to prison, and her son didn't call her mother for 30 years. Gaowa Siqin asked whether it was worthwhile to be a star.

65438+20221October 20th is Gaowa Siqin's 72nd birthday. A month later, on February 28th, her husband Chen Liangsheng, who had been with her for nearly 40 years, died at the age of 89. Recently, an interview with Gaowa Siqin about sheep placenta put her on a hot search. Looking back on her bumpy past, there are too many helpless wounds and regrets. This kind of controversy is a dime a dozen in Gaowa Siqin's life, so it should be for everyone's entertainment. The long past may even be a bad relationship with her son, which hurts her the most, so she will say: pain is the nutrient for people to live. Two children, three marriages and four actresses. She is half a history of China movies; Behind the colorful characters is her bitter life. God gave her gifts and hardships, but she never wronged her fate. Today we will listen to her story.

1950 Gaowa Siqin was born in a military family, and Gaowa Siqin means beautiful and smart in Mongolian. At the age of five, my father died, and my mother returned to her hometown in Ningcheng County, Inner Mongolia with her younger brother and sister. Gaowa Siqin grew up with her grandparents and mother. Her favorite thing when she was a child was watching movies. 1965 Gaowa Siqin, 15 years old, was selected as a dancer and announcer in Inner Mongolia Song and Dance Troupe, and her life began to settle down, but she has been waiting for an opportunity to step onto the big screen, which was her childhood dream. This level is 10 year. 65438-0976 changchun film studio's film Ode to a Career came to Inner Mongolia for casting. After auditions, makeup trials and screening, Gaowa Siqin, 26, finally played a female herdsman who was admitted to a university in front of the camera. However, due to historical reasons, this film has no chance to be released. Gaowa Siqin returned to Inner Mongolia Song and Dance Troupe, as if Cinderella had been beaten back to her original shape after a gorgeous party.

Also in this year, Gaowa Siqin ended his eight-year marriage. 1968, Gaowa Siqin married Sun Tianxiang, director of Inner Mongolia Film Studio. That year, she 18 years old, Sun Tianxiang was 27 years old, and then a pair of children were born. However, a pair of children did not piece together a "good" word for Gaowa Siqin's marriage. Sun Tianxiang has a big temper, which brings a lot of unhappiness to family life. Gaowa Siqin thought that having two children would ease her husband's character, but Sun Tianxiang's temper was not eased, but even more violent, and even committed domestic violence against Gaowa Siqin. 1976, Gaowa Siqin filed for divorce, but Sun Tianxiang didn't want to, but on the surface he pretended to be indifferent. Mother-in-law cried and advised Gaowa Siqin: You have two children, don't separate, okay? Gaowa Siqin has always had a good relationship with her mother-in-law. She said to her mother-in-law in tears: I really can't go on like this. I am sorry to disappoint you. They divorced on 1976, their 4-year-old son Sun Tie married her husband, and their 8-year-old daughter Sun Dan followed Gaowa Siqin.

Gaowa Siqin married actor Ao. Obi is two years younger, unmarried and single. He is a sunny and handsome young man. He is a Daur nationality and can speak Daur, Mongolian and Chinese. The acquaintance of the two dates back to the film Ode to a Career. At that time, Chinese was not fluent, so Ao enthusiastically taught Chinese. Love lurks unconsciously in his mind. At that time, Gaowa Siqin had just divorced, was older than Aoxingchen, and had children with him. AoXingChen is an unmarried guy, Gaowa Siqin doesn't accept this feeling. But Ao Xingchen's persistence finally touched Gaowa Siqin. In the second year of marriage, 1978, Bayi Film Studio prepared the film "anxious to return", and Gaowa Siqin was selected. At that time, she was pregnant for more than four months. She chose not to have children. She wants to act. At first, O 'Chen Xing disagreed. Finally, out of understanding, she agreed to his wife's decision.

1979 "anxious to return" was released nationwide, and Gaowa Siqin became famous as the heroine "Yu Zhen". From then on, she began to rise in her acting career. Bayi Factory took a fancy to Gaowa Siqin's acting talent and wanted to transfer her to work in the factory. Gaowa Siqin said he didn't want to be separated from her husband and asked to be transferred with him. Bayi Factory cherishes talents, and will be transferred to Bayi Factory with Ao on 1980. Ao Chen Xing was arranged to be a producer. A family of three went to Beijing to live. That year, Gaowa Siqin was 30 years old. She finally became a professional actress from the announcer of the song and dance troupe. Others said that after years of suffering, she finally waited for the moment to change her destiny, but Gaowa Siqin just smiled and said: I never wanted to change my life. I just like acting. Because he likes it, Gaowa Siqin films in other places all the year round. Fortunately, Ao Xingchen is an enthusiastic stepfather, who is mainly responsible for taking care of his stepdaughter Sun Dan.

1982, Gaowa Siqin filmed Camel Xiangzi. In order to play the lively, spicy and vulgar tigress, she deliberately tanned and gained weight, and also customized a pair of buckteeth braces in Beijing Tiantan Hospital. Gaowa Siqin did not hesitate to "self-destruct" his image for this role. Ao Chenxing told her not to play this role, but she wouldn't listen. On the contrary, she thinks that the role of Tigress liberates her nature. She used to be very shy, and she was uncomfortable when others looked at her more. She never thought that she could challenge the role of Tigress. Now she is more likely to know herself.

1983, Gaowa Siqin successfully created Tigress, won the Golden Rooster Award and the Hundred Flowers Award film in one fell swoop, which opened her "golden age". Holding the trophy, the grievances under the glamour suddenly broke out, and the word "divorce" once again appeared in Gaowa Siqin's life. Ao Xingchen is not used to living under the aura of celebrity wives, while Gaowa Siqin is filming outside all the year round and can't spare time to have children. He gradually lost confidence in this marriage. 1984 filed for divorce. Gaowa Siqin didn't agree at first, but when she saw that her husband had made up his mind, she had to sign with tears in her eyes.

But at that time, there were many comments, saying that Gaowa Siqin abandoned her ordinary husband after becoming famous. She didn't explain, silently healing herself. The pain of divorce has not dissipated, and it has returned to the camera. She participated in the Hong Kong film Time flies, with which she became the first mainland Oscar winner. In the same year, he starred in Xie Jin's film A Garland under the Mountain with Tang Guoqiang. Although she is a supporting role, she only has a few minutes of scenes, which makes Director Xie Jin speak highly of her: Gaowa Siqin is an old actress.

Gaowa Siqin sang all the way in her career, but after two failed marriages, she almost despaired of love. Just as she was preparing to live alone with her children, Chen Liangsheng appeared. Chen Liangsheng is a famous music conductor in China. He was born in Shanghai and now lives in Switzerland. After he divorced his ex-wife, he took his daughter to live alone because he didn't marry her until she grew up. Once, Chen Liangsheng visited a friend's house and saw a calendar with many female stars on it, such as Liu Xiaoqing and Pan Hong. In February, 65438 was a photo of Gaowa Siqin. Liang-sheng Chen thinks Gaowa Siqin is the most attractive to him. At this time, he was told that Gaowa Siqin had a big temper and drank. Chen Liangsheng said, so what? Just drink less in the future. They said she had been divorced twice. What about Chen Liangsheng 100 divorce? So Ling Zifeng, the director of Camel Xiangzi, introduced Gaowa Siqin.

I met Gaowa Siqin at the age of 36 and Chen Liangsheng at the age of 55. In fact, Gaowa Siqin didn't want to start this relationship. Although she has a good impression on Chen Liangsheng, she doesn't want to drag Chen Liangsheng down, except that he is a little older and has gentle manners, which is her favorite type. Although he is almost 20 years younger than Chen Liangsheng, he is in poor health. So when we first met, Gaowa Siqin said straight away that I was basically disabled. I have fallen off a horse several times, and I am not a complete person. However, Chen Liangsheng's reply is reassuring: treat the injury. There is nothing to be afraid of. Leave the mental injury to me and the trauma to the doctor, and I will give you health. This moved Gaowa Siqin to tears. After that, whether filming, rehearsing or being ill in hospital, Chen Liangsheng will appear in front of Gaowa Siqin with a bunch of flowers. Gaowa Siqin said to him: Maybe when you were young, you didn't belong to me. I should face your gray temple now. The general meaning of this sentence is: Why don't we meet earlier?

1986 Gaowa Siqin married her daughter in Switzerland. After marriage, she still wants to go back to China to film, and Chen Liangsheng is also very supportive. Since then, Gaowa Siqin has gradually returned to the domestic entertainment circle and appeared in many works, especially the 200/kloc-0 TV series "Da Zhai Men" and "Kangxi Dynasty", which won wide acclaim. In 2008, she won the Hong Kong Academy Award for Best Actress for "My Aunt's Postmodern Life". After Gaowa Siqin and Chen Liangsheng got married, her life was still very smooth. Although she separated from her husband, it didn't dilute their feelings. Chen Liangsheng healed Gaowa Siqin's great mental trauma with deep affection. No wonder some people say that no matter how deeply you are hurt, someone will forgive all the difficulties caused by your previous life. Gaowa Siqin said: My husband is my invisible backing, and what he did touched my life. However, divorce and remarriage not only made her own happiness and misfortune, but also dominated her son's fate. Her son's resentment against her is the deepest pain in Gaowa Siqin's heart.

His son Sun Tie was only 4 years old when he divorced. Sun Tianxiang, the ex-husband, always speaks ill of Gaowa Siqin to his son, instilling the idea that "your mother doesn't want us", so his son is very strange and disgusted with his mother. Gaowa Siqin once called Sun Tianxiang and said that he was going to see his son. Sun Tianxiang said that his son didn't want to see you. Gaowa Siqin didn't believe me and put her son on the phone. Sun Tian told Sun Tie that you told your mother that you didn't want to see her. Sun Tie answered the phone and said, I don't want to see you. This made Gaowa Siqin very sad, but she went back to Inner Mongolia by bus, just to see her son, but she didn't see him. She only got a verbal message from Sun Tianxiang: My son doesn't want to see you. Gaowa Siqin said, I've come all the way from Beijing. You can't let me leave without seeing my son. Sun Tian scoffed at her and said that her son disowned you. what can I do? That only shows that you have a bad image in your son's heart. You go ahead. My son and I have a good life. Don't disturb our life. After that, Sun Tianxiang remarried twice, but both divorced because of his bad temper.

1985, Sun Tianxiang had a conflict with his third wife. He got up in a rage, picked up the fruit knife on the tea table and stabbed his wife. His wife chose to call the police, and Sun Tianxiang was sentenced to five years in prison. After he went to prison, he could not discipline his son. /kloc-When he was 0/6 years old, Sun Tie dropped out of school and went to work in Shenzhen. He suffered from the hardships of life in his early years because he went in for a period of time because of trouble. Later, he opened a restaurant, worked as a medical representative and worked abroad. In contrast, his sister has been living with her mother and enjoying maternal love. However, in his early years, suffering from impermanence, his own bad luck and his father's instigation, Sun Tie once took it out on his mother, and his hatred for her grew day by day. He felt that her mother was too partial and left her to take her to Switzerland to enjoy life. So I refused to recognize my mother and go back to my relatives' house.

Gaowa Siqin fell ill in bed while filming. Sister Sun Dan told her brother that her mother was injured in hospital and begged him to see her. However, Sun Tie's reply is still cold. Sun Dan finally unbearable. She threw her brother some thick diaries. After reading the diary, Sun Tie knew that his mother was most worried about herself over the years, and gradually realized that he had misunderstood her. In recent years, Gaowa Siqin owes a lot to his son. Looking at his wandering experience over the years, I still can't find the position of life, knowing that my son likes acting. First, he sent him abroad to study acting, and then Gaowa Siqin brought his son into the cast and asked him to make a guest appearance.

1990 ex-husband sun tianxiang was released from prison. Because I have been in prison, my career and personal life have been greatly affected, and I have been alone. Life is not satisfactory, which makes Sun Tianxiang more fond of drinking. Coupled with the irregular life, his body gradually collapsed. In 2002, Sun Tianxiang was just 6 1 year-old and suddenly suffered from cerebral infarction. Sun Tie is very filial. After filming, I went back to Inner Mongolia to take care of my father and bear the medical expenses. Gaowa Siqin was considerate of his son's heavy burden and helped him financially. She said that you give money to your father and mother will make it up for you here. Although Sun Dan didn't grow up with his father, he was also very filial to his father. Sun Dan and her French husband have opened a restaurant in Beijing, and they support their father from time to time. When people get old, Sun Tianxiang's temper becomes gentle and he begins to reflect on what he has done. One year, Gaowa Siqin took his son and daughter to visit him. Sun Tianxiang said with tears: Why was my temper so bad when I was young? I broke my happiness. If only life could be torn down and started all over again. Gaowa Siqin also shed tears after hearing this.

After leaving Gaowa Siqin, Gaowa Siqin's second husband, O Chen Xing, lived the quiet life he wanted, got married and had children. The wife is an ordinary person and the relationship between husband and wife is very good. Ao Chenxing later became a producer of Bayi Film Studio. Gaowa Siqin and O 'Chen Xing are still friends. For decades, they met several times at the event, greeting and chatting like old friends. Sun Dan's care for Ao Chen Xing in those days was firmly in mind. She and her husband opened a restaurant in Beijing and visited Chen Xing many times. Now that Ao has retired, his old age is stable and comfortable. Gaowa Siqin is tolerant and generous. After breaking up with her two ex-husbands, she still treated her with courtesy. It is said that it is not easy for her to do this step.

Now Gaowa Siqin has experienced more than half of the ups and downs. Now she needs a wheelchair to walk, and she needs help to walk. More than 70 years have passed, three marriages and a pair of children; Three injuries, four movies, countless characters. From anxious to return's gentle and dignified widow Yu Zhen, Camel Xiangzi's fiery and vulgar kind-hearted tigress, to Dazhaimen's clever and powerful grandmother Bai Er, who saved her family from peril by herself, to the Queen Mother Xiao Zhuang, who endured humiliation and collapsed in the Kangxi Dynasty. The role he played left an indelible mark on Gaowa Siqin. Once, when she was dating Lu Yu, Lu Yu asked her the secret of acting. Gaowa Siqin said: The so-called secret is an investment in art. Even if the character is not really possessed, he will never stand in front of the audience easily. She said that acting in a play has experienced a different life, and acting in dozens of plays has experienced dozens of lives. If there is an afterlife, I still want to be an actor.

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