Therefore, when two children quarrel, the most taboo is that parents use their own identity to force themselves, so that both children will be dissatisfied. After two children quarrel, we must first find out the reason for the quarrel. Parents can talk to their two children alone, and be careful not to help Bao Xiao unprincipled, so Dabao will definitely feel uncomfortable, and then he may bully Bao Xiao while his parents are away. This is all caused by his parents' improper handling. There must be a reason for the conflict between children. Parents can try to enlighten them, such as how to divide things between two people, how to divide them half by half, or how to draw lots or take turns to solve conflicts between them.
I think it may be because most parents were educated in this way when they were young, so now many parents are used to letting the big one let the small one when quarreling with the second child. But over time, it will hurt the older child and even affect his ability to solve conflicts in the future. Too much interference from parents is a serious harm to children. Only when parents leave problems to their children can children learn to solve them. If children always rely on their parents to solve problems, they will be at a loss when they grow up without their parents.
So in my opinion, to deal with the quarrel between two children, parents should first be psychologically fair. You can't ask Dabao to be patient just because Bao Xiao is young. Secondly, when distributing food and supplies for Dabao and Bao Xiao, parents must adhere to the principle of fairness. They can ask their own opinions more and naturally feel that their emotions have been taken care of. Finally, when two children are in conflict, parents must not criticize a child without asking the reason. They must patiently ask the reasons and guide them, so that the two children can realize their own shortcomings and shake hands.