2. The person who is most likely to betray you is often the one who blows you; The person who hurts you the most must be the person you love the most. People who sincerely hope that you will make progress will not kiss your ass, but will point out your problems in good faith, even if they know that you will feel uncomfortable. Only when a person gets your permission, you love him and you have special feelings for him can he break your heart. That's why he messed up your life. No one can get in unless you nod.
In this life, there are three bowls of unpalatable noodles: human face, scene and affection. Don't overdo it, and don't lose your manners. It's really hard to get it right. We are all groping slowly in life.
4. All emotions are only value exchange in the end. Once they can't provide value to each other. Two people will break up and divorce. When the value of one party is higher than that of the other, the one with high value will look down on the one with low value. The other party didn't betray you, but you didn't deserve it.
If you are one point higher than others, others will envy you. If you are five points higher than others, others will envy you. You are ten points taller than others, and others will respect you.
6. The attitude of others towards you depends on your wealth or status, not what you do. Don't expect the other person to respect you in an unequal relationship.
7. Everyone will give complex tasks to capable people, and leave the benefits and benefits to those who have a good relationship with them.
8. Relatives may not really care about you, but may just want to know how you are doing. If you have a bad life, stay away from you. If you do well, please.
9. Promote Mien and fight Miqiu. Pay attention to the degree of kindness, don't be kind to others, and they will gradually take your kindness for granted.
10. If someone verbally attacks you and offends you, you must fight back on the spot. Otherwise, he will do the same thing next time, without psychological pressure.
1 1. There are good and evil human nature. There are people who are full of evil human nature. Don't think that a person has a conscience. Some people's conscience has long been forgotten.
12, whatever you think you really can't control, you'd better stay away from it from the beginning, no matter how charming it is or how attractive it is to you.
13, your kindness must be a little sharp! Be patient, stay away from those ungrateful people as soon as possible, and dare to fight back against those who push their luck.
14, many people don't hate privileges, but they hate that the people who have privileges are not themselves.
15. Some people will feel judgmental if they don't get some benefits. When they are interest groups, they will always maintain this relationship.
16, don't tell others your sadness easily, most people are just listening to jokes.
17, concessions are basically pushing your luck. Don't expect any respect and love.