What should I pay attention to in sister-brother love?
1. What should I pay attention to in communication?
In the relationship between "young aunt" and husband and wife, the gap is not only the age, but also various problems brought about by the age gap. Therefore, when the love problem between brothers and sisters comes, communication is naturally essential. Compared with ordinary love combinations, "sister-in-law" couples need more patience to deal with problems. Facing the generation gap caused by their different experience levels, they need more communication and understanding to resolve it, so as to narrow the distance between them. If the communication is not deep enough, the love between brother and sister will be more difficult to maintain than ordinary love, thus creating an increasing emotional gap in the accumulated contradictions.
2, trying to transform each other
Many "sister-in-law" couples will try to transform each other after their feelings are stable: women will ask men to grow up quickly and try to turn each other into mature men in their own imagination, but they used to think that men are unwilling to be bound and changed by nature, and forced change will only be counterproductive. Because of psychological troubles, brother-sister love pays more attention to each other's exterior.
What should girls pay attention to in sister-in-law love?
1, don't pay blindly.
You can do anything for the person you like, especially for girls. You can really do too many things for the person you like, especially for a boy younger than yourself. Maybe it's maternal instinct that makes you want to help them do everything. Most girls in sister-in-law love should be very caring and have strong endurance, but remember that endurance does not mean doting. Don't think you can do anything just because the other person is younger than you. Good feelings should be mutual tolerance and love.
2. Don't care too much about the result.
What we need to understand is that no relationship has a shelf life, and no one can guarantee that a relationship will last. Therefore, as a brother and sister in love, you should know this more. Don't worry too much about the future. I always wonder if I can make it to the end. The best thing is to enjoy the days together, enjoy the present life, cherish each other and cherish your relationship. You don't need to worry so much.
Don't be too accommodating to each other.
Girls who fall in love with their brothers and sisters may fall into a misunderstanding. They always think that boys are younger than themselves and should take care of each other more. Therefore, when we get along, we may unconsciously turn ourselves into a mother-like role, rarely coquetry with each other, but more impermanent dedication and tolerance, and try our best to meet each other's requirements no matter what they say. In the long run, girls will feel very tired and boys will feel as if they are not looking for a girlfriend.