Is the order of appearance really important?

Go to the wedding of my best friend Jiajia. Jia Jia has been an excellent scholar since she was a child. She is very beautiful. She has always been someone else's child. Have a good trip and finally marry a husband who loves her. When she was in college, she didn't marry a senior who played basketball well. She didn't marry a rich second generation who has been pursuing her since she started working. Instead, I chose the man I met at the age of 30 who could cook for her and walk with her.

In love, the order of appearance is really important. At what age would you choose to settle down? At that time, who did you meet? Love is not finding the person who is destined, but meeting the right person at the right time.

The same is true in the workplace.

Two days ago, the unit competed for employment. A dozen colleagues are eligible to compete for a leadership position. Of course, there are also differences in abilities among these colleagues. The candidates for leadership positions basically fall on two colleagues, and who will be elected is still unknown. At the beginning of the competition speech, several colleagues at the beginning were a little nervous, and then it gradually went smoothly. I think colleague A's speech is slightly better than colleague B's. But in the end, when the judges graded the competitive speech, B scored higher than A. At that time, I thought it was not "shady". Now think about it, among more than a dozen people, A was the first to go on stage, and B was the twelfth. For the first time, the judges used him as a benchmark to grade the colleagues behind, but when it was B's turn, many colleagues in front were not as good as him, so it was understandable that the judges gave him high marks.

Therefore, at some important moments, the order of appearance is really important.

Of course, we will think of another problem. The order of appearances can change some things. Will it be obviously unfair? Of course not. Isn't the order of appearance decided by lottery and luck also indispensable in work and life?

Extending out, we should not only do a good job, but also know how to report our work to the leaders in time to get support or affirmation. Sometimes when you come back to work, you feel that the leader is looking for you everywhere. Sometimes when you go, you will find that the leader is very satisfied with your work and patiently helps you solve the problem. Sometimes, it's not how well you do your job, but how the leader feels today.

Just like a good cook, he should not only cook well, but also pay attention to when to serve. It is important to seize opportunities in everything.