How to be a family without reason? People who are weak and have no opinions are like withered flowers. If you want the other person to be kind to you, you need the strength to help you. In the end, you will find that things are like a mess, and you will wait for the opportunity as usual.
There seems to be something else telling you not to tell right and wrong. You must be careful, fair and reasonable in your mind to avoid disaster.
Looking at marriage alone is waiting for the right time.
Personally, I suggest you be more considerate of each other, talk less about his right and wrong, and be honest and reasonable in your heart.