I was 23 years old that year and just started working. There is a male colleague in the unit, who is good-natured, handsome and tall, and is the secret crush of many single female colleagues.
In order to be with him, I must take the initiative to create opportunities. That day, I made coffee at the water cooler and watched him leave his seat. I immediately passed him with coffee, deliberately bumped into him and spilled coffee on him. He took off his clothes, and I grabbed it and said I would take it home to help him wash it, and then I ran away without giving him a chance to react.
Two days later, when he was ready to pack up and leave after work, I also began to pretend to be off work, and then I went with him to put down my class card.
Take this opportunity to tell him: I forgot to bring his clothes and let him go to my house to get them, otherwise it would be embarrassing to show them to others in the company.
He said yes.
When I arrived at my home, I said that I was the only one in our family and invited him to come in and sit down. Then when I got home, I was not busy looking for clothes for him, but immediately went into the kitchen to cook and told him that we were both alone anyway, or we would go to my house for dinner at night.
He was embarrassed at first, but seeing that I was busy, he was too embarrassed to refuse, so he stayed for dinner.
When eating, I didn't drink red wine romantically like others, but took out my grandfather's own rice wine.
Because my grandfather began to brew rice wine when I was a child, we dare not say that we can drink a catty of homemade rice wine in the countryside, and half a catty is more than enough.
This kind of rice wine is not very strong, but it has great stamina and will make people unconsciously drunk. He chose to drink rice wine in order to make himself unconsciously drunk.
Sure enough, everything is as I expected. He soon got drunk and fell asleep on the sofa.
In order to be with him, I left him at my house and created some illusions. The next morning, when he was still awake, I was lying next to him.
When he woke up, he was busy apologizing to me and said that he would be responsible. In this way, we are together.
Although we got married later, I kept this secret in my heart and never said it.