Recently, my father bought a1birthday cake celebration video, so I went to watch it. That is a video of my father's birthday shared by a netizen in Guangdong. The old man in the video is 9 1 year-old, happily cutting a big cake, and his family is singing birthday songs around, which is very warm. I wonder which old man doesn't want such a scene. As an outsider, we netizens are happy! What about the old people in our family? Most of them still have no children around their knees. So how do you usually care for the elderly? I think we can start from these aspects: always care more, act more and understand more.
First of all, always care about more actions. In ancient times, it was said that parents did not travel far, but now the situation is not satisfied. So, I greet more, call home more, talk more about family life with my parents, even if I talk about what's wrong with you and listen to what's wrong with them. When I have time, I will go home, bring some wine that my father likes, and bring some dishes that my mother likes, even if there is nothing to say, and the family is at home. I remember when I first went to college, I didn't call home for a week, and my mother called me. First, she scolded me, then she said miscellaneous things and asked me all kinds of questions, and my father echoed by the phone.
Furthermore, understand more, the parents' generation is indeed somewhat different from ours in thought, but if you try to understand them, you will feel that some of your parents' practices are very wise, and there will inevitably be friction in your life. You should understand more and listen to your parents' thoughts. In fact, sometimes your own affairs are not that important.