Is it better to sit at the same table with the same sex or the opposite sex in junior high school?

Same sex is good, but it depends on your people. If the opposite sex is the person you like, it is best not to be your deskmate, which will affect you. If the same sex is a good friend there, you'd better not be your roommate. It's best to find someone who has no friendship at the same table, otherwise it will lead to poor learning quality. First of all, same-sex deskmates "make friendship more affectionate". The other debater may have heard of "you at the same table" and "I just happen to think of you at the same table". Yes, the opposite sex deskmate is just an ornament of "accidental" life, but the real friendship is the concern after "flying around the house, the tragedy is in hand". Today, most of our classmates are of the same sex instead of the opposite sex who "asked me to borrow half an eraser"; On the long road of life, when you cry, the person holding your shoulder must be the same sex, not the opposite sex. Although I dare not speculate whether the other debater wants to satisfy the budding desire of youth, or wants to leave some memories and talk about the future, I must point out the fact that only the friendship hatched by the same-sex deskmate will last forever!

Secondly, the same-sex deskmate is conducive to cooperative learning. Have you noticed that in class, the opposite sex deskmate wants to talk, hesitates, and the same sex deskmate speaks freely and gushes. I don't see you, the opposite sex deskmate or lover, go their own way; Or love for a long time, love is thick and dense; Or friendship, but being pointed at. Maybe the other debater will say that the opposite sex can complement each other and the same sex can be different? As for "men and women are not tired", cleaning is ok, learning is mental work, and it is good for the opposite sex not to let you be mentally. Is there any magical effect to activate thinking?

Third, the same-sex deskmate is conducive to the exchange of ideas. Maybe you just want a spring breeze, but the same-sex deskmate can give you the whole spring, give you warm greetings, sincere care, considerate understanding and original and incisive opinions. After studying, boys talk about football and military science fiction, full of energy; Girls talk about stars, Korean dramas, trivial matters, and have a good time. More adolescent confusion, similar joys and sorrows. Everyone is afraid to speak in front of the opposite sex, and it is not convenient to spit in front of the opposite sex. The more secluded, the more secretive and intimate. Everything that weighed on our hearts was shared by our deskmate, and we also shared the unspeakable happiness with our deskmate. The inconvenience and embarrassment brought to us by the opposite sex sitting at the same table has slipped into the inner turmoil of "water is full and there is nothing to say". Can we control our discretion during this period?

Compared with many advantages of the same-sex deskmate, choosing the opposite-sex deskmate is an unnecessary trouble, the management difficulty of parents and teachers, and the unfavorable factors for students' all-round development. In this case, please communicate with the opposite sex rationally and choose the same sex as your deskmate!