My friend's family has five children. He is the third child, with one brother and one sister in front and two sisters behind. The conditions at home are difficult. There is only a shabby two-story bungalow in the village. When my parents got married, the furniture and appliances were still old things. The only new one is a second-hand TV set that my sister bought when she got married. At that time, in the countryside, people were influenced by how happy they were to have more children. They think it will be better to have more children and there will be more labor at home. But at the same time, there are more brothers and sisters and more money. Even the study has to be decided by lottery. My friend's grades are not good, so he chose to drop out of school to work. In the first month when I first went to the factory, my friend felt very uncomfortable. Every day, I either choose the wrong button or register the fabric wrong. I worked overtime every night without saying anything, and I was scolded by the supervisor. My life is extremely difficult. Fortunately, he has a strong learning ability and is tactful in dealing with people. Over the past few years, he has become the director's right-hand man and earned more and more. Later, I married a beautiful city wife, gave birth to two children, and started a logistics company independently, and my life was very colorful. But the fly in the ointment is that children are disobedient, often play truant, smoke and drink, and are often dropped out of school by teachers. ?
At a party, a friend brought his two sons, both under 65,438+02 years old, with blond hair, earrings and Huang Cancan's gold necklace. The overall dress of a nightclub teenager is not integrated with their student status at all. I talked to my friend quietly, and my friend thought it was normal: "They wanted a necklace, so I bought one myself. It looks very young. It's okay. " Parents are highly respected and their children are well educated; Parents' morality is low, and children's teaching is weak. In my opinion, children need to be spiritually rich and materially poor, so that children will be tenacious and not arrogant. Because the real strong man must be the one who runs with tears, not the one who laughs in the car. Selling iron in a pan will also get you to school. "You study hard, as long as you want to study, I will sell you the iron in the pot." Does this sentence sound familiar? I think that probably all parents have said this to their children. If nothing else, just to let the children study with peace of mind. But let me say first: whether to read or not is second, and learning to become a talent is important. Parents' education for their children is not necessarily to give them more expensive school resources, but to teach them to be human and have morality.