First, I am worried that I can't send it away, and God will rely on us to worship for a long time; Second, even if we can send it away, if the ceremony or some aspects can't satisfy God, then the beautiful things we prayed for before will be taken away by God. Therefore, it is really difficult to find a way to give God the best of both worlds.
The origin of the sentence "It is easier to ask God than to send him away" cannot be verified. However, there is an allusion in ancient history that "it is easier to ask God than to send him away", which happened during the Anshi Rebellion. This can be searched through the internet, so I won't go into details.
Now let's take a look at what can be regarded as "it's easier to ask God than to send him" in real life.
Be blamed for asking for help.
When we ask for help from others, we can say something nice, or honor our promise, so it is easier to get help from others. For example, a nanny is hired at home and a consultant is hired by the company.
But when your needs are met, or you find that the invited person can't help you at all, you want to break with ta. Under normal circumstances, it is easy to get together, but when you meet some difficult people, ta will either ask you for too much compensation or stay. Even if you finally agree to leave, you may be accused of ingratitude.
There is also a common extreme example, which usually happens in movies and novels. The protagonist asked some little people to help ta do bad things or kill people. Although there was a certain reward later, the little people kept pestering the protagonist and took the opportunity to extort money. The protagonist can't get rid of ta, and finally he can only take risks and kill the little people. In the end, the protagonist came to a terrible end.
After helping others, I became entangled.
This situation is more common. For example, some people kindly take their relatives or friends home when they see that they are in trouble, or take them to work in their own factories and shops, but some people are not grateful. They are not only restless, but also constantly create trouble for you, and naturally enjoy your help to ta. Finally, how to send away ta has become a very headache.
A friend I know invited a big trouble home out of kindness.
This friend once went back to his hometown in the countryside and heard that a 14-year-old girl became an orphan and was alone in the countryside. After consulting with her husband, she took the little girl back to her home in Shenzhen.
She bought food for the little girl and signed up for her class. At first, the little girl was very clever and obedient. Besides attending classes well, she often helps her look after the children and do simple housework.
Slowly, the little girl fell in love with my friend's husband. Not only does she not listen to what she says, but sometimes she deliberately does the opposite, and she listens to everything her husband says. The little girl began to love learning and dressing up. At home, her eyes always follow her friend's husband. If her husband is on a business trip, the little girl must wait until he comes back to sleep.
My friend's husband has always loved his wife. Every time the little girl sees her friend and the old couple talking and laughing, she loses her temper for no reason.
My friend found something was wrong, so she had to contact the little girl's relatives, give her a sum of money and send her to her relatives' house. But the little girl cried like a tearful person on the day she was sent away and stared at her with resentful eyes.
The little girl in this story can't say she is ungrateful. She may just lack love. When she saw a gentle and considerate man, she couldn't control the seed heart of her love.
Although "it's easier to ask God than to send him", we can't stop Dont Ask For Help from helping others. Instead, when asking for or helping others, we should consider some possible consequences and take some preventive measures in advance. Then, we said, it is easier to ask God than to send him.