Why do people have their own ghosts? Even it runs in the family.

First of all, parents should give priority to their children's education. School districts and high-quality educational resources are indeed helpful to children's growth, but if the family's economic situation does not allow it, or if the children themselves have no special interest and talent in learning, then excessive pursuit of these may also bring unnecessary pressure.

Secondly, it is normal for everyone to consider different positions and factors in family decision-making. As a member of the family, everyone has the right to express their views and opinions. I suggest you fully communicate with your husband, in-laws, in-laws and so on. Understand their concerns and expectations, and express your thoughts and concerns at the same time. Through equal and rational communication, we may find a solution acceptable to everyone.

Finally, regarding children's education and future, it is true that parents' support and help are very important, but children's own abilities and efforts can not be ignored. As parents, we can try our best to create a good growth environment for our children, but in the end, we still need our children to go by themselves. Therefore, for children's future, we should be concerned and confident, and let them create their own lives.