It should be said that I am usually fine, but I will suddenly encounter a lawsuit or something. The last sentence should be related to the grave at home. The third sentence means that you can turn your luck around by making some repairs on the grave and so on. Finally, I advise you not to sit there all the time, but to fight for it yourself.
The breakup he proposed was either a reason or a shirking. You should be more active. Some things can't be forced.
Good luck.