How to let children take the initiative to do homework? Please, thank you.

Correctly guide children to fall in love with learning: first, evaluate children in many ways. Don't just pay attention to the exam results when evaluating children, but evaluate children from many aspects. Pay attention to the cultivation of children's various abilities. Such as: being polite, loving work habits, strong hands-on ability, good at observation, diligent in thinking, good at thinking and innovation, and having the desire of lifelong learning. It doesn't matter how much knowledge you learn, what matters is to make students love learning. No, optical books are learning, and learning useful things outside books is also learning. For example, students like to watch big windmill programs, from which they can learn a lot. Second, create a good family cultural atmosphere. A good family cultural atmosphere can make children have a good cultural upbringing and develop good personality, ideological morality and behavior habits, which will benefit them endlessly; At the same time, it will also make family members have a harmonious relationship, a happy mood, a noble goal in life, a high quality of life, and a sense of security and happiness. Family cultural atmosphere includes material culture and spiritual culture. In terms of material culture, if economic conditions permit, it is best to have spacious, bright and clean rooms. However, if the room is clean and tidy and properly arranged, it can also form a strong cultural atmosphere, such as calligraphy and painting hanging on the wall (or calligraphy and painting presented by celebrities and friends or created by themselves), maps and photos. There are some famous books and current best-selling books and periodicals on the bookshelf. Whenever possible, be sure to arrange a well-lit, quiet and undisturbed study room for your child, and at least put a desk and a small bookshelf in the corner of the room. It should be recognized that the influence of family cultural environment on children is immeasurable, but now some families desperately pursue the gorgeous decoration of their rooms, and all kinds of high-end furniture and home appliances are available. It doesn't seem advisable to play cards, drink and guess fists at home all day, but there is no sound of reading. In terms of spiritual culture, the first is to establish civilized and scientific modern family rules and form a civilized and democratic family style. Family rules are not simply to restrain children, but to be observed by the whole family. Parents should set an example by taking the lead. It is necessary to clearly define the rights and obligations of family members and critically inherit traditional family rules. A good family style is a silent command with great power. Second, we should form a democratic and harmonious family atmosphere. Family members should respect each other, love each other, care for each other, be polite, understand and tolerate each other, and don't go overboard or take excessive actions. Parents should respect their children's personality, encourage their children to care about and participate in the handling of family affairs, and often communicate with their children. They are not only their teachers, but also their intimate friends, making family relations more intimate and harmonious. It should be noted that the tyranny of parents can only make children weak, incompetent or unreasonable. Third, we should create a pleasant atmosphere. After work and study, family members may wish to tell stories, stories and jokes together, with humorous language; You can cultivate some good hobbies, such as reading books and newspapers, writing and drawing, planting flowers and grass, playing ball games, going on an outing, playing chess, enjoying music and collecting. , can cultivate temperament, beneficial to physical and mental health. We should realize that the illiterate people in the 2 1 century are not illiterate people, but people who don't know modern technology and can't operate computers. Families should have a strong atmosphere of loving, learning and using science, so that families can create useful materials to meet the challenges of the knowledge economy era. Third, don't let the children lose at the starting line. As we all know, the starting action of track and field athletes will affect the performance of the competition. At the beginning of the new school year, it is also children standing at the new starting line. Then, as parents, how should we enthusiastically help them make all the preparations and greet the new beginning with confidence? A. Preparation of learning attitude Children change from playing games in early childhood to learning after entering school. This is a big turning point. They should be encouraged to arrive at school on time, observe discipline, concentrate on lectures, speak boldly, do their homework carefully and be good students. When evaluating children's academic performance, we should encourage them with an expectant look: "I believe you can correct your carelessness." "I believe you can complete the task of learning." Never hurt your child's self-esteem, reprimand your child in indifferent language and say, "You are so stupid!" " "I don't think you can learn well. "B. Preparation of study habits Study habits are the basic guarantee for completing various learning tasks. Let children develop good study habits as soon as possible after entering school, such as preparing school supplies and bringing them all; Come to class on time when you hear the bell; Do your homework carefully and hand it in on time; Protect your eyesight, do eye exercises seriously, and cherish books and school supplies. At home, parents should cooperate with me to cultivate children's study habits. Here I want to talk to parents about their children's writing posture. C. Preparation of learning methods On the one hand, it is necessary to correct incorrect learning methods developed in early childhood, such as wrong writing methods and incorrect sitting posture, and counting with fingers. On the other hand, we should write and read according to the teacher's requirements, and achieve three ones, namely: keep your eyes one foot away from the book; Hands an inch away from the pen tip; The fist on the table. With the growth of grade, we should also help them learn how to look up dictionaries, how to draw annotations, how to check calculations and homework, and other self-study and introspection methods. Think positively, question and ask difficult questions, encourage them to innovate boldly, and the more they learn, the smarter they become. Fourth, check the children's homework. Don't just look at how much parents have done. When checking children's homework, only pay attention to whether the children's homework has been completed, and rarely ask about the quality of the homework. In fact, checking homework like this is not conducive to students' study and development. Children do their homework to consolidate what they have learned or to prepare for the next class. In short, doing homework is to let children learn more knowledge. How should parents check their children's homework? First of all, let's see if we have written it carefully. Parents can see their children's psychological activities and homework attitudes through their children's words. If a child is calm and serious when doing his homework, he will naturally devote himself to every word in his homework. Otherwise, the homework done by children is only for the assessment of teachers or parents. Doing such homework is almost equal to not doing it. Because the child's "heart" has flown away, his "heart" will not remember what he did. Of course, doing homework like this did not achieve the purpose of doing homework. Secondly, see if you have filled in all the blanks and done the right questions. The blank space in the topic is reserved for children to fill in. Through whether the child has done it right, we can see whether the child has carefully analyzed the questions; At the same time, you can also know how children learn this knowledge. If it is right, it means that the child has mastered this knowledge. Otherwise, parents should see if their children make mistakes because they can't do it, or because they don't have a serious attitude and don't have a good analysis of the problem. At this time, parents should point out to their children where the problem is wrong. Look at the overall layout of the homework. The overall layout of homework, that is, the overall arrangement of children's homework. Parents check their children's homework to see if the overall layout is beautiful and organized, which can improve their aesthetic ability and strengthen the edification of their beauty. 5. What should children do if they are playful? Some primary school students play all day, have no interest in learning, and lack the attitude of conscious learning. Even under supervision, they always look around and are absent-minded. So, how should we treat such a playful child who doesn't like learning? A, cultivate attention from an early age. Children don't like learning, which is often related to inattention. Therefore, we should cultivate children's attention from an early age. B, the learning intensity should not exceed the child's tolerance. Many parents often arrange a few hours of study after school, which is actually not good. First, because children are very tired at school, plus a few hours of extra study, which greatly exceeds their endurance; Second, "classroom-family-style" relay learning often turns children's learning from initial curiosity and love of learning into boredom or even aversion to learning. C, cultivate children's interest in learning. Interest in learning is the motivation of children's conscious learning. If children are interested in learning, they will not refuse to regard learning as a chore. We often see some children interested in insects, and they are willing to know everything about insects. Sometimes they even find some books that they don't understand at all, and they are very focused. It is very important to cultivate children's interest. D, let children taste the taste of success. Continuous success in learning is the best stimulus and spur to learning. Many children don't like studying, mostly because they always fail in their studies and their test scores are always inferior to others. Therefore, we must appropriately set learning goals for children according to their actual situation, and give them practical and effective help so that children can gain a successful experience through hard work. E, don't force children to learn. If parents ignore their children's acceptance and interest, ignore their lively nature, blindly ask their children to learn this and that, and engage in fatigue tactics, they will often make their children tired of learning and have serious psychological obstacles in learning. Examples speak louder than words. Parents' words and deeds are the best role models for children. To make children love learning, they must love reading and strive to create a good learning atmosphere. If parents play mahjong, watch TV, dance and socialize all day, it is absolutely impossible for children to "get out of the mud without getting stained." G, avoid misleading in family education. The wrong direction caused by parents' careless words in family education is also an important reason why children don't like learning. For example, some parents said, "This child was ill when he was a child, so he couldn't learn." As a result, the child really thinks that his brain is not good, so he gives up learning. H, find a good partner for your child who loves to learn. Some children don't like learning when they are alone, but if they have a good friend who loves learning, they will become fond of learning. This peer power is often more effective than parents' preaching and beating. Sixth, discovering children's hobbies plays a very important role in their growth. To cultivate and develop children's interests, parents should learn to discover their hobbies. A, from children's questions to understand children's hobbies, I often hear some parents say, "Children ask questions, just ignore them, it's annoying ..." As we all know, it is a good thing for children to ask questions, which shows that they have a strong thirst for knowledge and exploration spirit. Children love to ask questions, which is driven by curiosity, a manifestation of hobbies and a sign of their intellectual activity. Parents should be good at digging out their children's hobbies from questions, helping them solve "why" and know "what". For example, the great inventor Edison liked to ask "why" when he was young. His mother fully affirmed his spirit of asking "why" and cultivated it, making him a great inventor known to all. B. Dig out children's hobbies from their parents' activities. On weekends and holidays, parents can pay attention to the goods, books and scenery that children are interested in when they take their children to shops, parks or walks in the Woods. In addition, parents can also write, draw, do paperwork, repair daily necessities and cook with their children ... Generally speaking, children's interests and talents will be clearly shown when they engage in activities with their parents. Seven, how to let children do their homework with peace of mind From the beginning of children's enrollment, some parents have a headache: children can't do their homework with peace of mind. Some people don't know what they are thinking even if they sit there and do their homework; Some do homework like running a marathon, from school to home until the whole family turns off the lights and goes to bed, but there are still many mistakes in the approval of homework. Therefore, some parents adopt a strict "discipline" method, and they are not allowed to eat, watch TV or ... Some parents simply stand by, supervise from time to time, or punish them. However, these measures have had little or even the opposite effect. How to let children learn to control themselves and finish their homework with peace of mind? This requires parents to take corresponding measures according to their children's psychological characteristics, and generally pay attention to the following points: a. Create a quiet family learning atmosphere. To let children study with peace of mind, parents must first settle down. At this time, they can read books, newspapers, or do things that make no noise and children are not interested. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words. Young children still don't understand why they should study, but when they see their parents studying hard, they will follow suit. Don't nag the children. Some parents like to care about their children when they do their homework out of the need of emotional communication. After a while, I asked, "Did you behave well at school today? Did you get the teacher's praise (or criticism)? " After a while, I asked, "Are you hungry? Do you want to eat snacks? " ; Some parents also love to urge them, "How many times have you done it? How many more? " "Hurry up, it's time to eat" and so on. This interferes with children from time to time, making them anxious and unable to concentrate. C. don't receive guests in the room where children do their homework. It is common for neighbors to visit and friends to visit. But some people talk endlessly, completely forgetting that there are children doing homework in the room. In the long run, children's studies will definitely be affected. Therefore, as parents, as far as possible, arrange to receive guests in places that do not affect children's study or children's entertainment time. It is also best for relatives and friends to visit their homes on children's rest days. If there is something urgent to visit their home, it is necessary to arrange the time compactly so as not to affect the children's study and rest. 8. Treat children calmly. For many children, both in life and study, there are exciting successes and confusing failures. For children's failures and faults, some parents lack due patience and calmness, and will only swear and casually label their children as "stupid pigs" and "losers". As everyone knows, doing so will greatly hurt the child's self-esteem. It is the right choice for parents to establish a correct educational concept and adopt scientific educational methods to let their children move from "failure" to "success" as soon as possible! I wish you good luck, health and happiness (* _ _ *). I wish your children happy growth and academic progress (* _ _ *).