On Saturday night, after dinner, Liu Liu suddenly said, "Mom, let's talk later."
"good!" I think this proposal is good.
Sixty-six: "But you said, I listened."
"That won't do, everyone has to attend." My father and I both said that we didn't agree with the idea.
Finally, I suggest: "Why don't you think of some topics, and then we draw lots. Whoever draws which one will finish according to the selected topic."
"This is good, this is good." Liu Liu suddenly became interested and thought it was much more interesting than just chatting.
Step 2: Prepare
Find a pen and paper and start writing the topic. Then, spread two yoga mats on the floor and put a small table. I make tea and set the teacups. She likes this kind of chat with a little atmosphere, especially turning off all the lights in the living room and lighting only candles. The family sat on the floor and started our evening tea party today.
Five small pieces of paper are placed under five cups. If you choose a cup of tea, you must complete the tasks written in the notes under the corresponding cup. All five people got their notes. Liu Liu said, "There are surprises."
3. The first round
Grandma will start first. Her topic is: One thing you want to say most.
Grandma: "One thing I want to say most is to decorate the new house. My daughter and son-in-law helped buy a lot of things. We are very happy and thank them. "
Grandpa Drew: Sing a song. "I can't sing any songs." Grandpa couldn't think of anything to sing at once, and finally grandma suggested, "Sing I love Tiananmen Square in Beijing." This seems to be a song that everyone can sing. Grandpa started singing, and we clapped our hands and sang together. The tea party was held in a pleasant atmosphere.
It's my turn. I drew an unforgettable thing in my childhood. ? There are many things in childhood, which one should I say? It suddenly occurred to me that I had a serious knee fall when I was a child.
In my memory, I saw grandma's eyes a little moist. Although I have talked about this experience before, I always focus on the bizarre experience of how I fell so badly and how to go to the hospital by fire truck. This memory makes me feel how anxious my parents should be. Now that I'm a mother, my children will be very anxious if they have a minor injury or illness. I broke my leg badly in those days, and I can't sew in the village. My father found a nearby army to drive a fire truck to send me to the city. Only doctors in the Third Hospital can sew. It was midnight when I got home. There was no telephone at that time, and my mother and sister were at home. I don't know what happened at that time. I must be anxious. Today, I recalled this incident for the first time and realized how my parents felt at that time.
After listening to my injury story, Liu Liu's father couldn't help telling a story about his childhood. I broke my arm for fear of being told by my parents and not telling my family. As a result, I couldn't lift my arms when I was dressed the next morning, and my family found me. Finally, I rested at home hanging my arms for a month. Every child has some rough experiences in his childhood.
Liu Liu's father was lucky to get what Liu Liu called a "surprise", which was a note with the words "free". You don't have to share this round. However, he just made a sharing.
What Liu Liu painted is: learning from animals. She first learned how ponies run, then found a chair as a prop and learned from octopus. I saw her crawling on the chair, her hands and feet like octopus's feet, crawling along the chair, really like it. Liu Liu's class happened to be studying animal dishes recently, and today I put what I have learned to use.
The first round was over, we continued to drink tea, and the second round soon went to work.
4. The second round.
This time, according to the age from small to large,
Sixty-six draws a "free", so you don't have to share it in the second round. Just listen to us quietly.
What I drew was: "Invite people to dance." Then I will invite my husband to dance with me. Dad found several ballroom dances from his mobile phone and asked me which one to choose. I chose this song as soon as I saw Love My Life. So we danced to the music and recalled the dance steps we learned in college.
It's Liu Liu's father's turn. He drew: Your favorite travel destination. He said without thinking: "Tieling. I am very happy to return to Tieling. " Definitely 120.
It's grandma's turn. Grandma's topic this time is: Tell me your favorite food. What's the story?
Grandma remembered one thing when she was pregnant with me: "At that time, the living conditions of every family were not good. When I was pregnant with you, I suddenly wanted to eat fish. At that time, no one in the village sold fish. " I went to a restaurant with your dad. I said I wanted to eat carp, so your dad ordered fish. Just as the fish was served, an old lady sat opposite and ordered a roast chicken to eat. At that time, I lost interest in fish and coveted the old lady's roast chicken across the street. I told your dad, I don't want to eat fish, I want to eat roast chicken. Your father said he could buy it if he wanted, and ordered me a roast chicken. There was no packaging at that time, and the fish was not finished, leaving half. "
I heard this story before, but I heard it again today, and I heard the love and care of my parents. In that era of financial constraints, his wife wanted to eat fish and chicken, so his father tried his best to meet his mother's requirements. And from my mother's words, I also saw my wife who was loved by her husband.
It's grandpa's turn to speak. This time, grandpa chose the same topic as grandma's first painting: "One thing you want to say most."
Grandpa said that life is fate, and now it is happiness to get married by fate. I recalled that I brought my father home, and then I was busy copying our marriage papers. Look at Liu Liu next to you. It was eleven years ago.
With grandpa's sharing, let's raise our glasses, replace wine with tea, and drink to our fate!
The family tea party ended successfully.
5. postscript
The next day, my father and I drove to the concert. On the way, we talked about the tea party the night before. Everyone thinks such family activities are very good. Things that you may not remember at ordinary times, or things that you don't say in particular, are expressed through such games. In a relaxed atmosphere, family members get to know each other better and get closer.
At the same time, because it was put forward by the children, everyone was happy to participate and would not feel too formal. The topics in June and June are also very good, and they are all memory cards that sing and dance to mobilize the atmosphere and warmth.
Finally, and most importantly, the time we spent together is the time that will remain in our memory in the future. Wait until we are 60 years old to play this game, if I draw a copy: "unforgettable things I did with my family." Maybe I will share last night's tea party with my grandson or granddaughter.