Obviously, because of various accidents and objective factors, the object you want can't be obtained. The more you pursue, the harder it is. On the contrary, the farther away from yourself, you will definitely not succeed. In fact, the obstacles mentioned in the signature are only understood by the parties themselves.
The above is not to say that marriage is absolutely impossible, that is to say, there are many difficulties and dangers on the way to the goal, and the objects encountered on each road are naturally different. The key is not to walk into a dead end because of yourself and others. So what is people's view of marriage, with happiness and love for themselves, their partners and their families as the ultimate goal? Or do you just want to fall in love with someone you feel good about (so-called possession, but it can't give each other aboveboard happiness, you can only sneak around, it's the hardest to succeed, and it's not easy to get public support and recognition. )? Because of all kinds of impassable factors, we just need to hold back temporarily, and some unnecessary tails will have a negative impact, so we need to wait patiently according to the actual situation. When you really calm down and look at yourself and observe the situation around you, you may find that the object of real marriage success and happiness is not necessarily the person you pursue.