Imitate a higher or better person
Pay attention to life, you will find that it is human nature to compare with others, and everyone is surrounded by the wind of comparison. For example, reading comparison, work comparison, bride price comparison, travel comparison, family condition comparison, education comparison, position comparison and so on. It is this wind of comparison that causes many people to fall into the strange circle of comparison, unable to get out, confusing themselves and leading to more and more negative.
1, not blindly satisfied, but appropriate.
You can't be blindly satisfied, you should be appropriate.
Especially when children are very young, mothers should pay attention to the fact that children like the new and hate the old. Seeing someone else's new toy is like wanting it. Many families always feel that these are not big problems. Children want to buy, and parents can't be wronged by hard work. But such infinite doting will only encourage children's vanity, and it will become more and more exaggerated after a long time. There will always be people who can't stand it.
2. Cultivate children's awareness of money from an early age
Parents can give their children more money and education when they are 3-6 years old, through games. Let the child know the price of what he wants to buy when he goes out. In daily life, parents can let their children do housework and give him a small amount of money, so that when he wants to buy something, he can buy it with his own pocket money. In this way, his concept of money will be gradually established, and at the same time, children can do more housework from an early age and reduce his awareness of material comparison.
Parents should set an example and set a good example for their children.
Set a good example for children.
When children are young, they build habits from imitation. As the saying goes, a big dog climbs a wall and a small dog learns from others. Children's growth is inseparable from their parents' education. Children's growth starts from your side, and your every move will leave a profound impact on children. Therefore, parents should start with their own good habits, don't have the psychology of comparing, always set an example for their children, and let them establish correct values and outlook on life.
It can be said that everyone has a heart of comparison. We often say that vanity and boasting are related to the heart of comparison. Therefore, even if children have the heart to compare, parents don't have to be too nervous. If the child's comparison psychology is serious, parents can refer to the suggestions in sharing and educate their children according to their actual situation. I believe that children will grow up healthily.