Love is not by asking for a sign, nor by wishful thinking. If this relationship breaks down irreversibly, it will break up happily, and you may be better off without him. He lacks a sense of responsibility, dare not take it lightly, can't handle the relationship between his family and his girlfriend, and doesn't care about men who have no opinions. Love is not just about being very much in love, but about bravely facing all kinds of life in the future. Love is not a three-point enthusiasm, but a lasting concern, pity and respect.
By the way, I am also in Xiamen, single, always looking up at the night sky, expecting to meet my other half at an uncertain time, hehe.