Your child is obedient and a tame horse, but people often say, "You can take the horse to the river, but you can't make it drink water". It is true that unless a horse is thirsty, even if it can be brought to the water's edge, it cannot be allowed to drink water on its own initiative.
1. Don't do your homework too long.
2. Enlarge the advantages of children
Don't learn too fast.
4. Let the children play enough first.
5. Change the learning environment frequently.
6. Make a homework schedule.
7. Let children do their homework first.
8. Let the children draw lots by themselves.
9. Don't judge the teacher in front of the children.
Second, how to make children more sensible
When communicating with your child, you must listen to him carefully and let him feel the attention and respect of his parents. In this way, he will seriously think about what he thinks and does and express his views in conversation with adults. Adults should also pay attention to some details when communicating with children, so as to communicate with children quickly.
1. Praise the child through the mouth of a third party
2. Communicate with children by letter or diary.
Speak in a gentle tone
4. Let the children know what is wrong in time.
5. Clever diversion of children's attention
Blend in with children
7. Say one thing at a time.
8. Always express your trust in your child.
9. only make constructive comments
10. Don't blame the frustrated children.
1 1. Correct the child's bad life details in time.
12 use praise to affirm the child.
Third, how to let children learn to manage emotions
Adolescent children are often dissatisfied with their parents, because the self-demands that accompany their growth always conflict with their parents' regulations. Parents must try their best to overcome this transitional difficulty and let their children mature and grow up smoothly.
1. Guide children to vent their dissatisfaction
2. Let children have the right to choose their own multiple-choice items.
3. Listen carefully to the child's dissatisfaction.
Don't let busy work be your excuse.
5. Deal with children's unreasonable demands in a democratic way.
6. Persuasion education with retreat as progress.
7. Respond to wayward attitudes with practical advantages and disadvantages.
8. Pay attention to guiding children's herd mentality.
9. Give your child a space to vent.
Fourth, how to make children love learning
Under the cramming education model, learning itself is a patterned process, not even like it or not. Whether children are interested in learning or not, they have to sit at the desk and read textbooks over and over again, which is also a cause of children's fatigue.
1. Tell more inspirational stories to children.
2. Use recent learning goals to motivate children.
It is also important to distract children.
4. Get rid of the habit of children having a fever for three minutes.
5. Stimulate appetite to promote learning
6. Teach children to learn to preserve their physical strength
7. Proper exercise can make children's brains more flexible.
8. Use provocation to promote children's learning
9. Use crisis awareness to improve learning efficiency
10 Keep the learning content fresh
1 1. Adjust the reading atmosphere with different subjects.
12 deliberately changed the learning environment of children.
5. How to eliminate children's learning tension?
As parents, we must deeply understand the reasons, try our best to give children proper guidance and comfort, let them get rid of the anxiety of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and often use optimistic and humorous tone to alleviate their hidden fears, so that children can have high confidence and courage to face the challenges that follow.
1. Being with children makes him feel safe.
2. Use an optimistic and humorous tone to dilute the child's failure.
Suppose there are 30 days in a month
4. Pay more attention to the importance of children's psychological construction.
5. Breathing can regulate children's mood.
6. deliberately put my foot in my mouth in front of the children
7. Mascots stabilize the mood
8. Relieve your worries and tensions and vent them quickly.
Sixth, how to make children concentrate?
Adjust your homework schedule appropriately, and don't stick to the established plan. Some children envy others to play while reading, and they have hidden dissatisfaction in their hearts, which will affect their interest in reading in the future.
1. Make irregular segmentation schedule.
2. The magical use of alarm clock
3. Establish a flexible homework schedule
4. Get rid of the lax consciousness of "anytime"
5. Assign children to do housework consciously and moderately.
6. Let children guess questions and improve their attention in the exam.
7. Warm-up is essential.
8. Use "quantity" to drive forward
Seven, how to make children turn negative into positive?
Life can be without many things, but only without hope. For children, we should always encourage them and don't let them have negative emotions.
1. Find the internal causes of children's negativity.
Let children publicly announce their goals.
3. A strong body is the foundation of establishing a positive attitude.
Good living habits are the magic weapon to keep a positive attitude.
5. Let children develop the habit of reading aloud.
6. Let children form the good habit of getting to school early.
7. Let children make more positive and optimistic friends.
8. Let children develop the habit of writing big characters.
9. Encourage children to try more new things.
10 Let children develop a sense of responsibility for housework.
1 1. Don't always ask yes and no questions.
12 cultivate children's positive attitude of inquiry.
13. More praise and less criticism can make children more motivated.
Eight, how to cultivate children's self-confidence
The value of life depends on ourselves! Tell children that man, as an independent individual, is unique. Never forget this. Let children know the value of his existence, enhance their confidence, and work harder to create their own personality and future.
1. Tell your child that he is priceless.
2. Let children do something easy to do
3. Weaken children's mistakes and highlight children's achievements
4. Pay attention to children's efforts
Praise the child first and then blame him.
6. Strengthen advantages and let children make continuous progress.
7. Build children's self-confidence with high goals.
8. Maintain a solid relationship of mutual trust with children.
9. Parents should not blame each other in front of their children.
10. Don't blame the child in front of a third party.
1 1 Let the children believe that the god of luck will come at any time.
12 Let children recall past achievements and rebuild their confidence.
Nine, how to eliminate children's inferiority complex
Eliminating inferiority and cultivating self-confidence are actually two sides of a whole and must complement each other. But the skills of cultivating self-confidence mentioned in the previous chapter are often ineffective for children with defects or poor grades. This chapter can be widely applied to children with poor ability.
1. Affirmative statements should be used frequently.
Mothers should also have skills in talking to their children.
3. Specific reasons to relieve the child's heart.
4. Use words to eradicate children's psychological barriers
5. Let children read biographies of great men in the world.
6. Let children face their peers with excellent performance objectively.
7. Cultivate children's special talents
8. Weaken children's inferiority complex by luck.