Whether you are a lovely girl or a woman before giving birth, you will become a superwoman after giving birth.
I saw a handsome and talented male star before, and I thought: I want to marry him.
Now I see talented and handsome male stars, and I think: I want to train my son to be like him.
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Mom, this should be the greatest career in the world, no one.
The best way to love a man is to be willing to have children for him. Have you noticed that 48-year-old Yi Nengjing was pregnant for love and suffered a lot? In the first two years, Yi Nengjing was often photographed by the media going in and out of the hospital without makeup. She loves beauty so much that she no longer cares about her public image for pregnancy. Fortunately, she finally got her wish and gave birth to her daughter Qin on 20 16.
My husband's sister, a relative, has been married for three years and has not given birth to a baby. As a result, my in-laws were not in a hurry, but she was in a hurry first. In order to have children, I went to major hospitals and finally decided to be a test-tube baby. Regardless of her in-laws, her husband accompanied her for examination. After a long time, her husband couldn't stand it. She went to the hospital by car for examination, injection and treatment. The treatment process is extremely painful, and I have to go almost once a week. Later, she became pregnant successfully and took progesterone every day for the first three months. After three months, the ass was sieved and the meat hardened.
Having said that, I want to tell you: don't think that it is not easy for a woman to have a baby or get pregnant. They used to be girls, and they all grinned when they took injections and medicines. In order to have a baby, they gave up half their lives.
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I finally gave birth to a baby, and how to look after the baby has become the biggest problem.
There is a clip in the program in which Bao Wenjing cooks while holding the baby. I believe many treasure moms will feel the same way after reading it.
Hot mom Bao Wenjing seldom takes her baby. Not only does her baby not kiss her mother, but even looking after her children seems so unreliable. In less than a day, my daughter Bao Aike (jiaozi) fell three or four times, banging every time. Looking at it, my heart is pulling up.
I remember when my son was eight months old, I put him on a single bed to play by myself, and then I went to work by computer. Soon I heard a loud noise, and my son fell out of bed and cried in pain. I rushed over and picked up my son to check if he was hurt. At that time, my heart was very distressed, and I blamed myself for not being optimistic about my son. Since then, I have never let my son fall behind.
Before giving birth, we have to shout, and we are tired of carrying a bag. After giving birth to a baby, I can't wait to become Superman Nezha.
Before the baby is born, we all get lost when we go out. We can't wait to see everything after giving birth to the baby.
How great and proud we are, we have many superpowers unconsciously.
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In fact, who will look after the baby after delivery is also a headache.
If it is breastfeeding, or the elders don't have the time, ability or even refuse to help look after the baby, at this time, women must give up their careers and go home to take care of the baby.
So let's talk about the difficulties of being a full-time mother.
After giving birth to a baby, if you can get through the second trimester safely and harmoniously, congratulations, your chances of getting postpartum depression have been reduced by half.
After finishing the month, most mothers will start to take care of their babies independently. Let's forget about housework such as washing, cooking, mopping the floor and cleaning for the time being, and only talk about such "small things" as taking care of children.
The first is the problem of breastfeeding, at least once every two or three hours. It was fine during the day, but at night, as soon as you slept soundly, Xiong Haizi burst into tears. You have to open your eyelids that are still fighting and soothe and nurse. Do this at least four or five times a night, and it will be dawn. It's time to get up and prepare breakfast for your family. Oh, yeah.
If one day the child has a cold and a fever, then you don't have to stay up all night. Holding the baby back and forth is your ultimate task. At this time, some children's fathers can actually go back to sleep and snore like thunder. You complain to him: What's your use? He pretended to be innocent: I tried my best.
When the child can crawl and walk, the mother should be more cautious, always worry about the child, and don't knock.
Of course, this kind of collapse will not last long, just three years, 1000 days and nights.
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Three years later, the child finally went to kindergarten. The national second child policy has come down.
In the program, Sha Yi's wife Hook gave birth to two sons, Angie and Xiaoyu.
In the face of two boys' love and killing each other, Hooke can basically be as cool as a cucumber, which makes people admire him.
When children compete for toys, Hu can take a five-minute rotation system; When children lie, Hu can adopt an honest reward mechanism; Hook can still smile and even blend in when the children play around and even spray paint on their beautiful clothes.
Sending the eldest son to school and accompanying the younger son to have a physical examination can fill the day of Super Mom Hook. Angie has been out of school for an hour. Hooke must have been in a hurry when she took Xiaoyuer for a physical examination, but she still tried to stay calm and didn't get angry with the children impulsively. Finally, Angie easily forgave her mother for being late in a joke.
Son Angie's sentence "Mom's cooking is the best" made super mom Hook's anxiety and fatigue disappear.
There is a kind of hardship, which is sweeter after suffering.
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But if you have a son and a daughter, just like the Ma Yashu family. You should also consider whether you prefer boys to girls.
Ma Yashu is such a neurotic mother. She can empty all the furniture in the living room for children, just to create a happy playground for them.
There is a clip in the program: Ma Yashu's son Aidan messed up the floor, and his mother didn't blame him; My son loves to play with car toys, and my mother praises him.
Daughter Mia couldn't stand it and bullied her brother to get attention. At bedtime, Super Mom Ma Yashu told her daughter to go to bed. Daughter Mia not only disobeyed, but also beat her mother to resist. When she was punished, she resisted again.
I can't help feeling, what a headstrong and stubborn daughter this is. We have always stressed that an original ecological family has a profound influence on a person's life, and childhood personality has a decisive influence on his life. In the process of raising two children, we need not only IQ, but also EQ.
Parents don't need to get a college diploma, they are all self-taught.
As mothers, in this process, we also learn with an open mind, grow up slowly, and gradually become a superman mother.
"Mom is Superman Season 2" is a reality show of star parenting observation. Star mothers of different types, personalities and backgrounds show the most authentic family life and the most authentic parenting experience. The regulars in the second season are Hook, Yi Nengjing, Ma Yashu and Bao Wenjing.