For example, some people will say: I always fail. This is to put a label on yourself. This label has a proper term called "congenital quality theory".
What are the consequences of such a label? People with such labels will pay more attention to their external performance and want to prove themselves. It's like they are taking part in a genetic lottery and hope to win.
What are the disadvantages of doing so? Once you fail, there is no turning back, and you will feel stupid, poor and incompetent.
For example, once you fail in an exam, you think you will fail forever. I feel bad if I haven't won the championship once.
On the contrary, there is another kind of person. They will say: it doesn't matter if I fail this time. I will try again next time. This is a "reformist".
The purpose of their study is to improve themselves and hone their skills. They don't pay attention to external performance, but pay more attention to the improvement of their own abilities.
Therefore, the way to get rid of the label life is to focus on mastering professional skills.