Because schools in Shantou strongly advocate quality education, and I personally admire quality education very much, so in the turbulent training ocean, we just took a boat and leaned over, with almost no dripping water. But grade six, grade six and grade six are graduation grades after all, and they are also the end of a relatively complete teaching stage. It is not a small technological production, a whimsical painting and an imaginative English drama that can replace the shocking figures other than graduation exams and basic examinations. Finally, we also jumped into the ocean from the boat.
Since the summer vacation of "five to six", I have been studying all kinds of information about junior high school like clockwork, eagerly grabbing nutrients in various forums and QQ groups, dreaming of becoming an expert in junior high school, trying to find a relatively easy channel for her and put an end to blind cultivation. ? However, no matter how hard I rack my brains, I can only get carried away in the Wang Yang sea of competition and competition at the beginning of junior high school.
I think I am the most dedicated mother. Unexpectedly, the parents in QQ group are familiar with the mathematical model of Olympic Mathematics, and they are proficient in all kinds of martial arts in solving problems. I don't understand. Did the children learn this or did we learn it? I thought I was the most informative mother. Unexpectedly, all the parents in the WeChat group actually know the class teacher in junior high school. I don't understand. I haven't finished the third grade. How do you know he will go back to the first grade next year? I thought I was a rational mother, mentally healthy and peaceful. Unexpectedly, as soon as the new policy of Xiaoshengchu came out, I immediately fidgeted and looked around for information to interpret this book. I took a deep breath, and I thought of not only Xiaoshengchu, but also poetry and distance. However, this poem seems to be a deformation of the Olympic number, and this distance is also the appearance of junior high school.
As soon as you enter the training center, it is as deep as the sea. Fusang, all kinds of dazzling and colorful eyes are blooming in front of my eyes. All kinds of QQ groups and WeChat groups that are striding forward are flashing day and night, and QQ sounds are one after another, which is not peaceful for a while. I spend a lot of energy every day to identify the advantages and disadvantages in various excellent classes recommended by excellent apps, and collect various excellent records, lottery numbers, registration and counseling materials in various WeChat groups and QQ groups, which are regarded as the standard information and materials by parents. After repeatedly screening these materials, let the children practice and go back and forth, and both mother and daughter are complaining.
I have no strong reason to refute my parents' anxiety. Who doesn't want their children to be outstanding, who doesn't want their children to be their pride, and who doesn't want to be dedicated parents?
Then, at the moment when we hurriedly boarded various competition trains again and again, we read various educational bibles and seemed to forget the criticism of our educational methods? We agreed not to rush things. How about taking your time? We agreed not to judge heroes by success or failure. We agreed to focus only on the process, not the result.
In a hurry, cutting in line and pushing, we forgot that I just want you to know more about traditional culture. I just want you to respect the traditional etiquette. I just want you to know the profoundness of China culture. I just want you to develop in an all-round way I don't want you to be an exam machine.
However, under the blind cultivation of the masses, I surrendered! I am anxious, I am flustered, and I have lost my heart!
Just when I was hesitant, disappointed and hesitant, facing my baby daughter at the beginning of Xiaoshengchu gave me great honor. I arranged all kinds of competitions for her, one after another, one lesson after another, which overwhelmed adults. I thought she would be bored, I thought she would complain, I thought she would even hate my crazy schedule.
She smiled: "I took the exam. Can you give me a rabbit? " I am blind! She is not tired of all these competitions and trainings, but just needs a weak and lovely little life to cheer her up? She thinks exams and competitions are normal. After a game, I tried my best, I worked hard, and I don't regret it!
Oral English competition is not an extra task for daily improvement, and the climax of Olympic Mathematics training is not unattainable, and the composition is getting fuller and fuller. Looking at my dense schedule, my husband feels breathless, but she can still find time to write some short stories.
A month of intensive training in foreign institutions, far apart, externalized words, astronomy and geography, this is not a junior high school exam, just like training a super brain, the girl actually persisted; One-on-one brainstorming greatly challenged the child's psychological endurance, and the girl also held her head high. She has done her best for the baby who has only been floating in this torrent for a month.
The final result is to drop the list by one point. There are regrets and grievances, and I understand that there is a gap in starting late.
I am going to walk into another famous school with a little regret. What is touching is that the girl grew up overnight. Take the initiative to find materials to preview, consult seniors and make study plans. The suffering of this summer vacation is not to be ano. 1 running outside, but the growth of an ignorant teenager. The suffering of this summer vacation has brought her study planning, knowledge arrangement, understanding of her parents and desire for learning.
I am so lucky to have such a baby that I can generously forgive my mother who rushed into the anxiety army at the beginning of Xiaoshengchu. Her calm and sweet smile, like a good medicine, made my anxiety awake. I look at my heart. Do I really want a child who is like an exam machine? Do I really want her to be a slave to grades, or do I want to be an evil mother who only has grades in her eyes? No, I don't want it!
I am going to walk into another famous school with a little regret. It is touching that the girl grew up overnight. Take the initiative to find materials to preview, consult seniors and make study plans. The suffering of this summer vacation is not to be ano. 1 running outside, but the growth of an ignorant teenager. The suffering of this summer vacation has brought her study planning, knowledge arrangement, understanding of her parents and desire for learning. The suffering of this junior high school gave me a "new" understanding of how to temper my mother's mind, return to my original heart, understand my children and get a "new" score.
Learning is a marathon, there is no need to worry. As soon as we arrange it, we will seriously participate and take it step by step. No matter what kind of anxiety the group conveys, learning is our common goal. You are studying, so am I; You are learning all kinds of knowledge and learning methods, and I am learning to adjust my mind and be a calm mother. Thank you, my dear child!