Focus only on your own family and abandon everyone. In some people's minds, the small family is the most important and the core of life. Large families are loose and sometimes even negligible. Since there is a gap between the rich and the poor, it is inevitable for small families to have a gap between the rich and the poor.
Everyone has their own life orientation, goals and pursuits, and everything will be paler, including family ties. When it comes to the support of extended families, especially parents, the first thing that comes to mind is not the support of parents, but to do your own business well first. If you can get less, you will never suffer.
In fact, brothers and sisters must establish an equal relationship after marriage. Mainly manifested in the usual exchanges and words and deeds. When the elder brother is the elder sister, take an arrogant attitude towards the younger brother and sister who can no longer have the legacy of the extended family era; Brothers and sisters should also respect their brothers and sisters and be humble.
However, some people tend to only consider their own ideas and never consider others' ideas, especially when discussing family affairs, which will give others a sense of oppression, or to put it bluntly, they just don't know how to respect others and are self-centered.